Im not even leagaly divorced yet and im falling for this guy i met on yahoo personals.I wasntnt really even looking for love at this time but i sent this cute guy just one wink and now in less than 2 weeks
i m falling hard for him.we havent made love yet but i want to.Should i or shouldnt i???????????
2006-11-04 05:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by prettywomen512 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loveis strong and falling in love with someoen over the internet seems pretty fast, you probably like him a lot. I say this because you just got a divorce and you want to find someone already. I'm not sure, I may be wrong, but in most cases, that can happen.
2006-11-04 05:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by jigenlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As with the real world if you have not met and gotten to know each other in person you are at risk of making a big mistake.
You clearly are very attracted to him. But understand there is a difference between attraction and true love.
Love comes slowly with getting to know that person.
Attraction is not a choice. We are or we are not. And it can happen quickly. At this point you know only what he wants you to know of him. Two weeks are not enough to commit yourself for life.
Back off a bit. Get to know each other in person first. Have sex if you must but always take precaution. But the jury is out on love.
Why do you think the divorce rate is 50% in the US.
2006-11-04 06:03:27 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not found on doorsteps, you know, neither on computer screens!!!!! If you feel confident enough with a friend, you might consider this event as getting closer, best friend, liking his him, anything but I would not describe it as love.
Love develops along the road in a relationship. It starts off with caring, respecting, trusting. But it takes its own course and in 2 weeks it is very difficult to establish whether you love somebody. Don't fall for it or you will be badly hurt in the near future.
Keep something in mind; women are more sensitive than men. What you are feeling right now is the urge to have sex and/or something intimate with a partner, but it does not necessarily mean that your friend is feeling the same way as you are.
Do walk rather than run, otherwise you're on the way to sumble, hurt yourself and dump yourself into a black hole that would take you ages to recover from.
Most important do take care of yourself. It is worthed waiting a couple of days rather than losing everything in an hour.
2006-11-04 05:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum possibly they're asserting that they love one yet another after 2 weeks because of the fact they're youthful and green. because of the fact falling in love in 2 weeks the two would not take place in any respect, or at a minimum would not take place very many times. even nevertheless there is not any common rule of thumb that works for each couple in each and every undertaking, i think of that its maximum suitable to attend an prolonged time until now you're saying issues like that, because of the fact those words get abused and reported too many times while they do no longer seem to be meant. additionally, if journey and custom ability something, which I say it arguably does because of the fact human beings do no longer substitute from technology to technology as much as we choose to think of, its extra effective to have the guy say "i admire you" first. adult adult males tend to like to be those doing the chasing, and that they freak out while the ladies get too linked too without delay. except of direction you decide directly to scare him away, then initiate talking approximately infants and marriage and love and contact him repeatedly returned and he probable will bypass working.
2016-12-09 02:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it love I think it more lust because for so long you were unhappy and now you have someone that makes you feel great about you. Please don't get me wrong I'm sure that love grtting in their but it's not all their yet . So go slow. Be friend and lrean each other first . And then you and the other person will fall deeper in love than you ever have know.
2006-11-04 05:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get through your divorce & take sometime for yourself. You could be jumping into another mistake. Take a break & see what you are really about, before bringing someone else into your life.
2006-11-04 05:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel same way but it didntturn out well..felt feelins for someone new ur not in love its a rebound..mabey..so u wanna feel that feelin of love again,lieki did..but other person may not feel same go with teh flow trust me.let him b first to sya he wants u and needs u n loves u..i told osmeone i wanted to onlt b with them n now teh distant trust me one this one u dont wanna rush it on u both ,gettoknow him more..im lookinso hard now for a month and none of teh guys im seein is ready..good luck be patient have faith and u will be ok
2006-11-04 05:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by cbutterflyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You can fall in love in 2 weeks but I don't think LOVE in 2 weeks.
2006-11-04 05:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mara D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone knows two weeks is not enough. It takes three weeks, ten hours and fifteen minutes! Stop rushing things!
2006-11-04 05:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's your choice, but in your case be carful for the rebounders. the guys that try to get to you because you are in a needfull state now. proceed with causion.
2006-11-04 05:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋