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My crush is choosing out of the girls who like him which one he likes the most&is going to ask her out! I, as well as 3 other girls, are in the running. I don't think i have that much competition but I'm not exactly that full of myself. Please help...how do I get him to like me? Everybody says I'm too pretty for him, but I don't think so...please help me.

2006-11-04 05:46:32 · 4 answers · asked by It's mee. 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm not some "loser" or whatever, &no, I'm not 10 or 11, but you need not know my age because you could be a stalker...but I don't have t race to get him...I just want him to notice me!! I am myself...I think I'm on the right track...I hope...but any extra things?

2006-11-04 05:51:42 · update #1

OK, choose was a bad word I'm guessing. gawsh. uhmm. he IS a great&nice guy; a good guy friend of mine. He is a "man", well, as much as he can be. But he's going to see who he likes most...

2006-11-04 05:58:02 · update #2

he can be a great bf...he went out with someone i know&he treated her like a queen!!

2006-11-04 06:03:38 · update #3

Ok, it's between me&my friend ann.
I hope he decides to ask me outt!

2006-11-04 08:15:25 · update #4

4 answers

First I think you may want to give some thought to the fact that he is making a contest out relationships; and making himself the prize. Whether or not you are full of yourself, it sounds like maybe he is. He's going to have at least four girls fawning all over him and trying to "get him to like" them—what teenage guy doesn’t want that? If you are hoping that this is going to be a serious long term relationship there needs to be more to it than that.

Unless you want to spend every day like this--being over the top, always trying to go the extra mile to get him to like you--you are much better off just being yourself. If he likes you for you then this is all for the best, and that way it keeps you out of this competition, and if he doesn't choose you, you won't have to spend the next week feeling stupid because of everything you did to try to win him.

Bottom line, don’t let your attraction to him turn you into someone else; you may not like who you become.

2006-11-04 05:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Willow T 2 · 0 0

why would you degrade yourself so much as to let a guy "choose" out of girls that like him. he sounds like an arrogant pr!ck and why in the world would you subject yourself to that. he's already proving that he's a jerk and he's not going to be a good boyfriend...that's obvious. find a real man instead of some little boy. video games are something that you pick and choose, not human beings with feelings...

2006-11-04 05:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0 0

Omg, if you have to have a "race" to get this guy to be with you then obviously he's a freakin' loser and so are you! How old are you, 10....11 maybe? This is so disgusting, does this seriously sound normal or healthy to you? Just think about it...

2006-11-04 05:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Be yourself

2006-11-04 05:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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