Me and my ex-boyfriend recently ran into each other at a bar and sparks flew. We've been seeing each other for about a month now and we've talked every single day since then. The most that has gone by that we haven't talked is 1 day. Two days ago we went out for drinks had a good time, had great sex, but I haven't heard from him since. I've called him twice in the last two days, but haven't heard back from him???What the heck happened. I'm losing it right now. I feel rejected and confused. Should I forget about him and move on??Help!
2006-11-04 05:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by indhira21720 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's easy to do the back and forth with an ex. You broke up for a reason. When you ran into eachother you both prob had nothing else going on and its easy to fall back into the old routine because you're lonely, horney..etc. He probably realized it was turning back into a relationship and doesn't want to go in that direction. So he's doing the male thing and just not calling instead of telling you. Move on. Trust me, I have done the back and forth many times and it always ends up causing more pain than if you just end it and move on. Good luck.
2006-11-04 06:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by c m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he's you have been seeing him for about a month now, since last time you were with him. Do you know what happened in that time when you weren't with him? ask your self, is that a good place to RE-meet your ex? My thoughts are that he may of been trying to be nice and talk to you every day just to keep you in the palm of his hand. Maybe the only thing that is keeping him around is the sex, but he may of found someone else.....and is deciding if he should dump you for another. As for him not returning your calls, he may be up to something or just might think your kind of stalker-ish. I would forget about him and be single for a little bit till you find someone who wont stand you up like he is doing.
ps. If he calls you back and acts like everything is ok, maybe he just got comfirmation he has you sprung over him since he didnt call you or return your calls but you were still waiting.
Good luck!
2006-11-04 05:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Doisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there, maybe he's realizing that he really liked what happened between you guys and he needs to tie up some loose ends before he can concentrate fully on you again. I wish you the best. Hey ,at least you didn't send naked pictures of ur self to a guy and not hear from him for two days like I did. Talk about feeling rejected. OMG!
2006-11-04 05:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...you two didnt become exes for nothing. there was a reason. Makes no sense to keep going back and forth if you broke up and give your body to someone that you cant call your yours. During that time he was probably trying to just get over you but not telling you.
2006-11-04 05:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by one_beyond_beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on, or at least wait until he calls you. From what you say you had history with this guy and if he really wants to be with you he will get back to you.
I don't think you should call him anymore..it will make you look desperate. You've made the effort, wait it out. But personally I would let him go...he could call or text even if he's THAT busy.
Good Luck
2006-11-04 05:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by shy_dixon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be trying to gain the upper hand on you, which in that case you shouldn't worry and just move on but he could just feel really awkward about it.
2006-11-04 05:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an EX boyfriend for a reason, remember that reason when he doesnt call you a third day.
2006-11-04 05:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you gave it away without having the commitment first.
2006-11-04 05:41:19 · answer #8 · answered by schell_75 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be good in bed.
2006-11-04 05:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋