I have a long distance boyfriend who i just found out was cheating on me and I've been so loyal to him.. but when he comes to town I want him out of my life but at the same time I DON'T want to leave him. what do I do.
2006-11-04 05:36:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dump him!! There's no reason to stay with a guy who doesn't respect you.
2006-11-04 05:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Casey O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that, If I could do it all over again, I would have had a clean break from the guy. The back & forth mess, the shamefull & embarrassing ways I reacted, the pain...It was not worth it. You & I deserve better. There are so many great guys out there if you don't short change yourself with a loser, who doesn't deserve you. Move on & upward with your life. Spend your time doing positive things, instead of the pain your in. Live your life to the fullest without him.
2006-11-04 05:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends if he come back to town to stay, give him a chance if you really want him and if you feel he is sorry. But if hes not staying in town i say break up. Long distance is hard and you already know he cheated on you.
2006-11-04 05:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a list of the good and bad things he has done. If he has done good things then stay with him but if he has done something so so bad that it would even make you angry and upset if you remember the good things he has done then dump him.
If he hasn't done good things to you the just dump him.
But it is actually your choice. You need someone that loves you like they love themselves and care for you. If he just likes you because you are pretty or something then He does not care about your feelings.
You are meant to love others for
Who they are.
Not what they are.
2006-11-04 05:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Crow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. It can be hard to break up with someone you cared about so much, but you deserve better. Ditch the looser and find yourself a real man.
2006-11-04 05:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated once he'll do it again. dump him u deserve so much find a guy who cant be faithful to u. you'll probably miss him a lot but just think about what he did to u
2006-11-04 05:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is CHEATING ON YOU!!!!! why on earth would you not want to leave him?!?!? don't be a pathetic girl that lets her bf walk all over her. he is a piece of sh!t that does not deserve to be with you at all! move on and find a real man that won't ever cheat on you!!!
2006-11-04 05:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stay with somebody just because you feel sorry for them.if i were u i would have dumped his cheating butt the moment i found out but it's your boyfriend not mine only you can make the decision
2006-11-04 05:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's the thing about distance relationship they can cheat on you.if you don't want to be with him because hes cheating. so why don't you try to fine someone elts to be with and you can cheat in him to. give him a taste of his medicine.
2006-11-04 05:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as much as it's gonna hurt you should dump him. take sometime to be by yourself and then find someone in the town or city where you live.
2006-11-04 05:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by jdchick48 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UMmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..
if ur cute then leave him
DUMP HIM !!
and holla at me lol
but if ur UNCUTE then stay with him or w.e
i hope this helps
bye
2006-11-06 04:58:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋