one of my best friends my really best friend she and her friend were in here basment and i was with them i saw her take a piece of paper out,a lighter and a bag of weed.
what shall i do
PLEASE HELP IT WILL HELP IT MEANS ALOT TO ME!!!!!!!!
2006-11-04 05:34:46 · 19 answers · asked by Tiffany F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your friend that you think it's bad for her. Be prepared for your friend to not like you anymore. And go find some new friends who don't do drugs.
2006-11-04 05:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by chuck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell her the affects it can have on her in the future. Or tell her parents. Or just leave her alone i done it when i was a teenager i am done with it now i grew up and have a family but if you want to stop her tell her parents but be prepared to suffer the consequences. Or just tell her you are not going to be around her when she is doing it. And if she does i often then tell her you wont be around as often as you used to be because of this and if she really is your friend she will stop or at least will not do it in front of you.
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-04 05:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I have Been There.
DO NOT LISTEN TO THESE STUPID PEOPLE WHO ARE TELLING YOU THAT IT'S NO BIG DEAL--SMOKING WEED IS A BIG DEAL!!....
I am from the ghetto, and I've seen with my own eyes how teens who start smoking weed because they think its "cute" and "fun"--end up becoming on crack or crystal meth. One of my best friends used to drink in high school and smoke weed--and she ended up in re-hab at the age of 20 for crystal meth...
Look, you have to save yourself. IT'S TIME THAT YOU BEGIN TO DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM HER. I know that it hurts, but drug use is "contagious"..Look at Whitney Houston--she was this sweet girl-next-door, but because of Bobby Brown--she ended up a drug addict...I never allowed myself to be with people who were smoking weed or doing drugs--never.
YOU CAN NOT SAVE A DRUG ADDICT....Start getting some new friends...Trust me--a long "heart to heart talk" probably wont do any good. She probably has that lax attitude that its "no big deal", and she'll probbaly make it seem that you are just acting like a nerd..Look,--SAVE YOURSELF--GET SOME NEW FRIENDS--STOP HANGING WITH HER.. Think about your life and the things you want to do in life. Hanging around drug users will not help you get there...
Trust me--BOTH my brothers were on drugs for many years..I was the only one who never smoked or drank alcohol..As much as I love my brothers, I distanced myself from them while they were on drugs. I went to college, graduated, now I'm a Teacher.
SAVE YOURSELF.
2006-11-04 05:48:10 · answer #3 · answered by Victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's smoking for the fun of it, try to get her into something that she'll find more enjoyable but will be negatively impacted by it, like sports. If she seems to be trying to relieve some kind of stress, you should get to the bottom of what's causing the stress.
2006-11-04 05:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should either smoke it with her or stay away from her.My beliefe is that you have over reacted in the state of Colorado they are voting to legalise it state wide and have already done so in Denver and its county.If it was really dangerous they wouldnt be legalising it
2006-11-04 05:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to go to her parents, if she is under age. It may be hard for you to do. If she is your friend it will be the only way to stop her from getting into worse things. She may hate you for it. However, you may save her life.
2006-11-04 05:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave ur friends and ask them to not do drugs if they say no find better friends.or u could try to get them off of the drugs it will bee a lot of work but its worth it if their ur true friends
2006-11-04 14:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Kamitara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to stop the drugs or not associate with them. You could wind up in jail yourself.
2006-11-04 05:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send it to me................or relax alittle............the so called war on drugs is a joke. it doesnt work. most other countries have a very relaxed attitude towards "drug" use, and their jails and prisons arent full. they dont have to worry about hardcore criminals roaming the streets--------because they dont have them..... the illegality of a substance means that you must associate with criminals to obtain them.......so the best thing is to gather up all the drugs you can find and send them to me
2006-11-04 05:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by cbacc5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has problems.
decide to speak to her and accept what she says.
ultimately you need to decide if you have a problem with drugs.
you also need to know that she will change.
can you deal with the reality of mood swings, lose of motivation, and the possibility of addiction.
think!
2006-11-04 05:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋