I've been seeing/dating this particular guy since May, our relationship is more...serious than when I dated other guys. I'm not going to get into exactly how serious we have gotten into the relationship, cause c'mon being raised around guys, I KNOW ya'll can figure that one out. Neither of us said those "three little words" until we'd been going out for 2 months. But due to jobs we have been seperated since mid August. He's military-think bootcamp [so it's not really like he GETS to have a life at the moment], and I just got hired with a new company that has me training until mid Dec. So we are a couple of time zones away, so with work/training schedules and the time difference, phone calls aren't happening. We email constantly to stay in touch. But last night he asked me if I would consider a 3-sum with two other guys. At first I just thought he was joking, ya know being creative for activities that followed. But after those activities, he ask me if I would atleast think about it.
2006-11-04 05:31:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay first off, I'm a tomboy, always have been, always will be. That's what happens when you come after 3 brothers. I have dated twice before, but nothing this serious and have definately never been asked THIS type of question.
We won't be able to see each other again until Mid-Dec when we are both done with training, and we've had every intention of continuing our relationship as quickly as we are back in the same city.
With the time difference, distance, the months apart, and the fact talking IS hard to do yet we still do it...would you consider asking this of your girl?? I can understand using the idea/fantasy for creative purposes..but what would he seriously get out of asking me to consider doing this, let alone if i decide to go through with it? Can he honestly want me to do it? Just don't understand what guys would/could get out of another guy touching their girl. Just trying to understand.
2006-11-04 05:38:17 · update #1
I think it means he's a freak and is probing to see if you can get yours on. Think if you like this or not and make a decision accordingly.
2006-11-04 05:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rich B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend is a freak. If this isn't your thing, you need to have a long talk with him about it. By the way, threesomes are never a good idea.
2006-11-04 13:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by EchoCharlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is weird or joking. Its pretty obvious, he wants to watch other guys have sex with you, which, like i said is weird. Either that, or he is just saying that to see if you would say "Yes" or not, testing your relationship with him. Dont fall into the trap (if it is one) just say no!
2006-11-04 13:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The boy's a freak and let boot camp get to him.
2006-11-04 13:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to tell you this but amy be he wants to slip away from you bye telling you that you can do something with someone elts and hes going to see you have sex with sum1 elts
2006-11-04 13:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful because it will affect your relationship!
2006-11-04 13:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by steffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋