I had an affaire for more than 5 years but my boyfriend didn't want to continue the relationship and we broke-up. When I broke-up with him I was very depressed. That time my best friend supported me to overcome. After sometimes he told me that he loved me but because of my relationship, he never told me about that. After that, one day I found myself weak for him and then I told him about my feelings for him.
For 1 month and a week, I finally lived my life with full of happiness because of him.
I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH.
But
I lost HIM because of my X-Boyfriend.
I NEED HIM. Plz HELP me.
My x-boyfriend came back and requesting me to go to him because he realized that he love me more than his life. Whatever, he is not any more anything for me because I deeply fell in love BUT the problem is that my love thinks that I’ll be happier with my x-boyfriend because I loved him a lot and now he is crazy for me. He thinks that he came between us. I try to make him understand but...PLZ HELP
2006-11-04 05:20:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Print this question out with its answers and show it to him.
You obviously want to continue your life with your now-boyfriend and he didn't come between you and your ex-boyfriend so you need to tell both of them how it is.
Communication! Men cannot mindread, even if we mimmick it really well after some years of practice, so you have to spell it out in big simple words.
Perhaps in one of those oldfashioned things people used to write called love letters.
Sometimes the written word triumphs where the written word fails to get through. And love letters are SOOOO nice to receive and read and reread many years later when you're both sitting on the balcony together.
2006-11-04 05:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by NotsoaNonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what you want, I'll try to help you. First off you need to make sure that the guy you like, hears from you every day if you have no way to be with him. Tell him what you want to do to/with him, and make sure that if he calls you on it , that you diliver, so only say truthful things. The other thing is to make sure that your ex man knows that he's your ex, and use showing your ex that he's your ex to the one you want as your man. This should take about a week or two for it to work, if it don't work by then, E-mail me at jje777@yahoo.com, and I'll tell you the next steps.
2006-11-04 13:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was having an affair with a marryied women for a bout 3 years,I was singal so it wasn't a problem for me.But then things became very diffecilt for us.We were on and off for about a year befor I packed it in.within that 3 years I became depressed got myself into debit and lost my freinds because of her.What I will say to you is start fresh move on and find someone eles befor its to late,someone that does not know you and you dont know them.Thats what I did and now im marryied to a lovley girl could gemma for just over a year now.good luck
2006-11-04 13:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by JOHN F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why you started being interested in your friend is because he was there through one of your bad times. Sad to say but he was going to be a rebound. He caught you when you were vulnerable and tried to act on it. No telling what he was thinking about receiving from you while you were down.
2006-11-04 13:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by one_beyond_beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u think? I think that u would b better off with the new b/f or none at all. Please try to tell each one of them how u feel. If u want the new b/f then tell him but if he says no u must stay away from your old one thats where u went wrong in the first place good luck
2006-11-04 13:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your ex-boyfriend who leave you when you really need him. yeah its true that still you love your ex-boyfriend. but think about your friends who support you when you need someone. and i dint know that why your boyfriends left you alone.hope not for other girls. if yes, than really my feeling say that whats guarantee in future that your ex-boyfriend will not leave you and be with you forever.
now the matter of your friend come. look in my opinion think about your friends who really love you even he knew that you were with other man, still he love you. means he has true feeling for you.
now you like to say your friends that you are no more love him and you like to go back with your ex-boyfriend that is actually uncomfortable. but you have to think very carefully.
2006-11-04 13:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by harry_d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to change his mind. Your ex-boyfriend is obviously trying to interfere. Your current boyfriend sounds like a wimp.
Maybe you should just cut both of them loose and learn to enjoy being alone for awhile.
2006-11-04 13:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by Scarlett_156 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Life is short so follow your heart!
2006-11-04 13:27:19 · answer #8 · answered by destiny12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that there is no other boyin the world you like more than him....tell your ex to go F*CK himself
2006-11-04 13:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be sure how your ex really feels and how you REALLY feel.
Don't let your heart lead you - just your head.
2006-11-05 05:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by wingmanblu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋