I am 18, in college, and I have a job. I get out sometimes but I' m always around a lot of people. I recently met a guy at a club a nd he asked me for my number but I told him later and then when he left he didn't get it. Anyway I feel that I may be too hesitant and not exciting enough.
2006-11-04 05:11:36 · 19 answers · asked by Roxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time write it on his hand lol.. good chance if he was drinking he wouldn't have remembered your # by heart the next day.. or I may be wrong.. it depends on how taken he was too ^_^ That's too bad the chance was missed 'but' you never know you may run into him again. I know when I went clubbin one night when I was in high school.. and there was really hot guy I was exchanging glances with.. Nothing ever happened between us.. but it was funny cause when the new school semester started he was in my math class.
Anyways don't be hard on yourself just let it happen when it happens.. "Sometimes the best things in life are unplanned or unexpected" When your not looking that's when they find you. ^_^
One needs to be content with themselves and happy before things start happening too..
2006-11-04 05:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by bulldogsr2cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not it, it's always best to be yourself, a be real with it, just so that you'd find the right one for you, and not some sex crazy fool that will end up useing you for what ever they can get. Open your eyes girl, just look at what all your friends are going through, then think, is that the kind of person you want to end up with. It's best to go at your own speen, it's safer that way, and the love will be more complete.
2006-11-04 05:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u are still young so u have a lot of time to find a good boyfriend, and if u can't find a boyfriend at the club u may just fined it here there is a lot of guys that would like to DAT a girl like u
2006-11-04 05:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by turkishniyazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just go for it right away! You're obviously hesitating, why ?! Take a chance, don't worry about it not working out, you'll never know unless you get out there and meet some guys.
2006-11-04 05:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
later = rejected
Maybe you should talk to more guys... Women don't often go looking for boyfriends. Your stuck in the same rut most men are in. You can ask a man out... Try places you go to eat or coffee shops etc. Many men worry too much about rejection doesn't mean they aren't nice.
2006-11-04 05:29:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nick M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just believe in yourself, when the time is right, and he's the right guy, everything will come together for you. Sorta like magic- You're just 'charmed' around him, and he'll be 'charmed' around you. Both of you will definitely know who the other is. I know, sounds a bit crazy, but that's about how it will be, seen it happen enough.
2006-11-04 05:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and try not to push people away. When someone goes up to you they must like what they see or they wouldn't approach you in the first place. Live life as it comes to u. Good luck
2006-11-04 05:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by tckk1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's because it's not right to have a boyfriend in the first place...girls are supposed to be shy..it's their nature that they were created with..the only right thing to do is to ask your family to find you a suitable guy ..meet him just one time..if there is chemistry then get married...this answer maybe strange but we have to think again if the system of bfs and gfs is right...men now keep having sex with girls until they are THIRTY...then they get married
2006-11-04 05:21:28 · answer #8 · answered by Mr M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, we are in the same boat-mines is because I'm too picky-but don't worry eventually you'll get a guy. I mean if you surround your self w/ lots of people then eventually a guy will catch your eye.
2006-11-04 05:14:08 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to gain some confidence men find that sexy. once you exude this you will see more men coming your way. remember you are also 18 date, date, date....don't settle for vanilla till you have tasted ALL the flavors....oh yea baby!
2006-11-04 05:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋