I gave my b/f what he wanted...?

Question

and now he won't even talk to me. I feel real bad cause I never wanted to do it. If i do it more,will he still like me?

Answer 1

If you had really given him what he wanted. He would still be with you.

Answer 2

What do you mean if you do it more will he still like you?????? You should have never done something you didn't want to do in the first place. Why don't you girls get it SEX DOES NOT MAKE A MAN LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just move on and don't do something you don't want to do ever again. Do I mean you should never have sex again? No... I mean wait until the time is right and you are a willing participant. It's really not that hard to figure out, quit causing yourselves pain and problems that you can't deal with. There's enough of that without getting into it before you are ready. I know this is a painful lesson but please learn from it. You should just forget about the guy.

The truth even though it hurts. : (

Answer 3

Just ignore him, even though I know you want to speak to him real bad but just ignore him and when you guys do speak don't even mention what happened. When he brings it up then tell him how you feel and that he is an AsShOlE and that you did it because you loved him and that you are no slut. It's his loss. To sleep with a virgin is one of the greatest things a man can enjoy and not only to sleep with her once but to become lovers. He is ignorant and is taking you for granted. Don't act like you're losing something if he doesn't speak to you. It's his loss. Don't keep sleeping with anyone else til you fall in love again. And always take care of your body. Don't have unprotected sex. Take very good care of your vagina. It is a very important part of your body, if he doesn't want it forget him. Just remember to love yourself and your body very much, and more than you love anyone else (except God). I know how you feel. The first time I did it with the guy I loved he treated me as if nothing and my heart was so hurt I don't even want to remember. I never should have slept with him. After that he only came to me for sex and I stopped loving him. Do it only with someone you love and that loves you back. See ya . Gotta go. Love ya, take care.

Answer 4

You should have never had sex with him or whatever you too did if thats not what you wanted to do. Dont give him the chance to ignore you, break up with him, he talked you into doing something you didnt want to do, thats not right. All hes gonna be after now is sex, no you shouldnt keep giving him what he wants, people will think badly about you if thats all you do, abd believe me, he will tell his friends abou it because thats the type of guy he appears to be

Answer 5

You don't say what it is you gave him that he wanted. In general, if he's being mean to you and ignoring you, chances are he doesn't really like you and was just using you to get what he wanted. If he's not willing to talk with you, dump him and move on.

Consider counselling or talking to a therapist if it's really bothering you, especially if what happened was he pressured you into sex. If you are a student, most schools have free counselling services. Also, if he pressured you into sex, did you use a condom? If not, please also see a doctor or go to a Planned Parenthood and ask them to test you for STDs and pregnancy. All it takes is one mistake to change your life forever. Find out as soon as possible so you can figure out how you are going to deal with it.

Answer 6

First off, you should have never gave him what he wanted...he's not ur husband, and u are not his slave. This is not a ruling world where guys have control. you have feelings and instincts he should have respected you. If you don't feel right about something...follow ur heart. You made a mistake, dust it off and start over, he doesnt talk to you, dont talk to him, but if you do talk to him, tell him about hisself, dump him, the relationship is over, actually he was never ur boyfriend, a real guy would have never done that to someone he cares. It is okay to be alone ( otherwise you do not need a b/f) take time for yourself, and that means no dating, no sex, no committments...ur young, and you have to respect that. be cautious of ppl and dont trust them right away. remember that...( I know all about that). and no dont do anything to make him happy or get his way. now its about you babe, all about you.

Answer 7

I know it must be tough the way you learned about some guys.

I am going to say something that goes in contradiction of what you have read in other answers.

Guys want sex. Girls tend to make it difficult for guys to get sex. Guys then will do whatever it takes to get sex (lies, tricks, drugs, more lies, etc.)

It is a never ending circle. If girls did not make sex difficult for guys, then guys would not lie, trick, drug, etc; but then girls would never get the kind of attention they want from guys.

This is the way it is done is these days, guys trying to get sex, girls trying get love.

Answer 8

He didn't like IT. That's the death knell of a relationship. IT is different with every woman, and some just haven't got it (for an individual). Doing IT is a very important part of getting to know someone, and if that doesn't feel good, one may as well look for someone and something else.
From that point of view he is doing you both a favor.
Move on!

Answer 9

never recompense your desires for a man's, it never works out the way you feel it should. Hold your head up high and move on, there is someone looking for you. They will worship your temple and make you feel like the lady you are.

Answer 10

Don't be silly. He's obviously after your body only. Now that he's got everything of you, he doesn't want you anymore. You've been dumped and cheated my dear. Guess you've not even realised it yourself. Even if you do it one more time, I guarantee he'll also not like you anymore. Don't get used by him again. Why allow yourself to be used without getting something in return? Pls dump him before he does it 1st.