I am jealous of my friend who is going out with my Ex and she says so we are both happy and he will be happy that we could double date him. Should I?
2006-11-04 04:10:42 · 3 answers · asked by Kendall G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I broke up with this guy and this girl who is now my best friend says that we should both date him at the same time and she has no problem with it and I dont either but should I?
2006-11-04 09:35:17 · update #1
Don't ask a friend to be a marytr. This busness about friends not dating friends ex's is BS. They should not do anything to break up a relationship. They should help you try and save a relationship, but once he is your ex, they are available. Some people click some people don't. Part of dating is that you find out about people. Some traits you thought were cute are now driving you nuts dealing with it on a daily basis. That is just the way it is. You date people you meet, and some people do not have a large circle of friends. Telling them you should not date an ex is unfair. The High School that I went was quite small. Everyone was someone's ex at one time or anther.
I'm confused with the double date concept. My concept of a double date is that it takes 4 people, 2 guys and 2 gals. Instead of the couple being by themselves, they take another pair with them. It is nice that you don't have the responsibility of carrying the conversation all by yourself and usually a fun way to have a first date.. Miniature golf, bowling, guys vs girls... etc.
Some people go out for fun, not to be a couple. The don't want to be commited. They want to play the field so to speak, learn what will make them happy from a prospective partner. If those are the ground rules then you can date as many people as you want, but do it one at a time with the understanding that there may are may not be a second date and it has nothing to do with them either way. He is your ex, get over it. If you were a true freind, you could warn you girl friend about a few things to watch for, but if he is a good guy and it just didn't work out between you, then don't punish him or her for it. You should not force your best friend to suspend her life because you want to throw a pity party for yourself. If I can't have him, no one can... So mature.
2006-11-04 04:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No let her have the boy.It is not the end of the world there is a million people to meet out there.If my best friend stole my EX and I still like him.I leave him alone and move on to another boy.
2006-11-04 04:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, and honestly, in my opinion, if she was your friend, she wouldn't want your ex to begin with, friends just don't do that...
2006-11-04 04:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by babyatgradys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋