Okay, I had a sexual relationship with this guy, and he and I pretty much have the same circle of friends, he's actually really close to all of the people, and sometimes when I would call he would be like say first and last name loudly, and then when i told him that I din't want everyone to know of our realtionship, he's like well, we did have a realtionship, and he even went on to say that he's told some people but then later on said he was just joking...and then threatened me and told me that he would tell everyone of our realtionship...and then have the nerve to smile at me, when I see him around like everything is cool, so my question is why do you think he would do something stupid like this and tell everyone?
2006-11-04 04:06:43 · 9 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because he used the phrase "we DID HAVE a relationship" tells me this guy has no intention of ever seeing you on a regular basis, and if he is threatening to tell others about your sexual indescreations, joking or not he's nothing but a BIG A$$HOLE!!!!
Do yourself a favor....tell him to go ahead and say what he wants to anyone he chooses because they already know all about it because you told them everything that happened and he wasn't good at all !!!! ( If he does tell anyone you can always deny it ever happened, and say to your friends that he keeps hitting on you and you rejected his advances so he is trying to get revenge).
You're lucky that this guy hasn't decided to use those threats in a way that would force you to have sex with him whenever he wants it or else!!!! Good Luck to You
2006-11-04 05:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there are various types of men out there. Some kiss and tell whereas others, who are more considerate, don't. The guy you chose to have a sexual relationship with apprently, is probably not a gentleman. He kiss and threatens to tell. My best advise to you is take it within your stride. He may be telling the other "available guys" that you're his becos he likes you or maybe he just wants to get on your nerves... becos he likes you. Have you ever considered asking him why he's doing this to you? Honesty is the best policy... you should tell him the reasons why you don't want your mutal friends to know and try to let him see how it would have been if the tables were turned and have him see things from your shoes...
2006-11-04 12:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid, or dont think too much, next time when ever he say that he will tell everyone of our realtionship, ask him, that u can tell everything whatever u want to say. dont afraid, he wont tell to anyone and after that he wont ask you the same any more. do this.
2006-11-04 12:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by GLADIATOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems immature...he just might. Guys don't think very well. They put the mouth in motion before engaging the brain.
2006-11-04 12:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
know i dont think its a good relationship why would he do these type of things to you thats mean and you shouldnt be with somebody who plays games with you like that
2006-11-04 12:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is telling people ur a hoe stop him!
2006-11-04 12:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by hotnsassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys r just retarted sometime u never no why they do anything sometimes they don't even no why they did or do things
2006-11-04 12:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by roro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes messin with ur head, look out
2006-11-04 12:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by outlaw2737 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to tell his friends of his conquest. aka he's being a dick.
2006-11-04 12:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by m deal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋