There is this guy at work who just came back from working with another company... when he first started working here he was dating one of the girls that worked here she no longer works here, now he stats that it has been one month since they have seen each other.... now my question is i really do like this guy just that we are not allowed to get involved with the guys at work should i just let it go and find someone outside of work or if things get serious with us should i keep on doing this behind the owners backs?
2006-11-04 03:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by Baby Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hold on to him. Work is one of the best places to find a healthy relationship.
2006-11-04 03:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by ricothe3rd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, find somebody outside of work. Work relationships can be dicey, and if your not allowed to have them due to company rules, then why bother putting unneeded stress on yourself?
2006-11-04 03:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you like the guy, ask yourself which of the two of you would change jobs? either that or both end up fired, or possible blame-gaming each other if one, not both, get fired. lying and secrets bleed through the workplace.
2006-11-04 03:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by blueJean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work is not the place to start romance... for all the reasons you already know about.
2006-11-04 03:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you value your job, then don't do it. Besides, it doesn't sound like he actually said he broke up with her---so, you'll only give yourself a lot of needless drama.
2006-11-04 03:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would find someone else ... he hasn't made an effort to see the other girl ... what's to say he won't do the same with you and if you leave your job because of him ... will it be worth the relationship?
2006-11-04 03:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be wary of this situation, sounds like he targets on what is convenient...
2006-11-04 03:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should find someone else. It would be better.
2006-11-04 04:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by drummer_sk8er_punkette 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want him go for it
you only live once
gl
2006-11-04 03:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Rogers best friend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me all you are concerned with is getting laid. Try using your brain to think instead of what lies in your panties.
2006-11-04 03:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋