can anyone help me!now i am in love,and is it wrong that i told him bot my x boyfriend and the sex(oral) we made?i trusted him and i thought its better to say everything so i told him.we are still goin fine but once he told me that: he cannot forget what i told him and askin me more deep about what all i had with him.is it a mistake what i told him?will he think about it all the time when he is with me?what can i do to make him forget and to accept it only as my past history?how can i help him?will this topic affect after getting married to him? plz anyone answer me..be serious enough.. is he loving me like before?
2006-11-04 03:47:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its normal, he'll get over it
2006-11-04 03:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay from experience, girl, you need to think about this. Did he ask you about your x? Did you volunteer the info? I know you trusted him, but sometimes you have to be careful what you say. You know he isn't just going to volunteer the info about his ex's right??? ANd sure he probably will be thinking about it when you are intimate for a little while anyhow. Just be careful what you say. Just don't bring up anything about your past and your x's. Eventually he will forget about it, but it takes time. I am sure he is loving you like before, because he wouldnt be here if he didn't. Hope I helped...
2006-11-04 11:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by alleybug_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you should never have done, you know the next time. Now this is all this guy is going to think about. He is going to throw this up in your face, more times then you can count. Sit him down, and try and clear the air. Tell him, that I love you, and may be it was not a good idea to express myself to you, but I just wanted to be honest with you. I want you and I to be able to discuss, and communicate about any and everything. I want to have a wholesome life with you! I hope everything works out for you!
2006-11-04 11:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very normal. You just told him about a situation that involves him to some extent and people are naturally curious about everything. The best thing to do is to give him time to get it out of his mind and remember some things are better left unsaid. It may be better to leave your past in the past. You should have learned a valuable lesson from this. I hope u did.
2006-11-04 11:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me, only my fiance'(boyfriend at the time) didnt get angry or upset. Its important to be honest with the one you love, its important to get all of your sexual experience out on the tabl to be sure that you two are goin to be comfortable with one another. It shouldn't affect your boyfriend to the extent it is because it was your past and he is now your present, just express to him that you love him and would never do anything to hurt him, just be honest with him, dont regret telling him, it was the right thing to do
2006-11-04 11:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ashly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
History is "called" history for a reason. Some of it you read in your history books. And some of it is nobodys business. Your past history is none of his business. Live and learn. Actually, unless aguy is "really" immature, he doesn't usually care to hear about a girls "past" adventures, okay? I would just drop it, and not talk about "history" to him again, okay?
2006-11-04 11:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you wanted to be upfront with him in the relationship and felt like you needed to tell him about it. It is past now, You have cleared your conscience. You want to forget about it. Please do not ever bring it up again. If he cant live with that, move on. I would not be so open about past relationships in the future.
2006-11-04 12:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by kstfas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't have gotten into detail but now that you did... just tell him to simply forget about it. If not he wont feel good enough for you or might think that you still have feelings for your ex. Personallyy I would not have brought an ex up...
2006-11-04 11:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by REGINA A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is interested in what you did because maybe he thinks that you liked it and that he is interested in making you happy to. Give him all the info you want and that he wants since he is asking and maybe you will get a surprise that you will like
2006-11-04 11:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you at least learn to type your well prepared question properly
2006-11-04 11:49:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋