im 16 and this guy is 19, turning 20 this january, we are considering a relationship, but we are not sure if we should, considering the age difference,(he's over 18).........does this matter......should we or should we not...?help please
2006-11-04 03:34:45 · 16 answers · asked by sexc_jessy*1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's over 18... YOU AREN'T.
He could go to jail.
2006-11-04 03:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be okay for you guys to date but you have to look at the results of this especially the negative ones. here is the thing ,this guy is older than you will expect you to satisfy him maybe sexually but you on the other hand you are at a stage were kissing and hugging are the limits . so the question will you not give into the pressure or you will ?you are still young ,why don't you date guys you own age because you have the same line of thinking. its up to you okay as long as you are cautious and sure that you are strong and you can stand you ground whichever decision you make.
2006-11-04 11:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see anything wrong with it per se, but I know when I was 16 and I liked a guy who was 19, my parents just about had a cow. I ended up running away from home.
Keep in mind that you could get him in a legal hassle if one of your parents doesn't like him.
2006-11-04 11:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Scarlett_156 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That age gape isn't bad, are you or he planning to go to college? If so take it easy. Your still young and most likely have a lot of things you want to do before getting really serious in a relationship. Just be careful
2006-11-04 11:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should get into relationship with a 3 years older you. Just be friends.
2006-11-04 11:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by girlicious♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be jail time for him if your parents do not approve of the relationship. All it takes is your parents finding out his age and them press charges on him.
2006-11-04 11:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what they say: girls are more mature than boys.
actually, it has been proved that a girl reaches maturity three years before a guy at the same age does. so i'd say that the age difference between you is perfect.
besides, the age difference between my parents is also three. :)
2006-11-04 11:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by irinna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider the legal ramifications! The age difference is okay but if it leads to sex, you are too young, legally!
2006-11-04 11:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope do not even consider it he could go to jail and you are too young to have a relationship with someone this age . good luck and god bless.
2006-11-04 11:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold off, he is at that age that he is going to take advantage of you and he is of legal age and your not. Finish highschool and if he is still around then think about it
2006-11-04 11:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its fine you just have to watch what you do. Hes considered an adult and can do things to get you in trouble. Otherwise just do what you think is right and if you think you cant handle it just wait. Good Luck!
2006-11-04 11:37:27 · answer #11 · answered by Matt A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋