I wanted to get my Brother and Sister-in-law something nice for throwing us an engagement party - question is what should i get them? ANd how much should i spend? THey are having about 40 of us over their house for snacks and drinks and i wanted to get something to show them how appreciative i am of them doing this for us. Any suggestions?
2006-11-04 02:53:43 · 12 answers · asked by Bethanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
give them a gift certificate for a nice dinner out and don't forget a hand written thank you card.. not typed or emailed
2006-11-04 02:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by lady_available_4luv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no magic equation for figuring what, and how much, to give as a gift. What some consider generous, others may think stingy. If you consider the recipient (what are their hobbies, what are some things they like that they may not want to, or be able to, purchase for themselves) and your budget and then give from the heart your gift is sure to be perfect. Sometimes just a warm hug and a letter of appreciation is enough. Use your best judgement and you can't go wrong.
Some suggestions - if budget friendly:
Gift Certificate for a Couple's Massage
Bottle of Wine with 2 Special Glasses
Extravagant Box of Imported Chocolates
Bottom line - at the very least - DO send a thank you card.
2006-11-04 04:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by weddingqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt think that you HAVE to buy them anything. This is your engagement and you should be saving up for your wedding and honeymoon etc. I dont think your brother is looking for anything in return or he would not have done this for you. I would get him a nice thank you card or even something that took some thought like going on Ofoto.com and making him a cute picture thank you card. Maybe scan a picture of the two of you as a kid (if this is your brother not brother in law) and put a cute message inside or try a picture of you and your fiancee with a nice message inside. Just think about it like this. When someone throws you a birthday party do you buy them a gift? DOnt stress it! Just get a thank you card.
2006-11-04 02:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by shaymarie99 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The bride is probably already having a shower and/or a bachelorette party that is being thrown for her by her bridesmaids. She probably just doesn't want to come right out and tell you that she doesn't need your help. If you want to let her know you're not bitter about not being in her bridal party (though it sounds as though you still very much are) simply attend whatever shower the bridesmaids throw her (assuming you're invited) and bring a nice gift and card.
2016-05-21 23:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to bring a gift - after all, you are the guest of honor. However, make sure you send a thank you card, personally written, and ifyou want to have a small gift to bring, keep it simple. A bottle of wine, flowers, chocolates, etc - all make great hostess gifts.
2006-11-04 03:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Chrys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you got loads of money? Maybe not. Why not get them something that they enjoy, like a special bottle of wine. A pair of theatre tickets, a huge bunch of flowers, the list is endless, don't forget a lovely card with your own special thank you inside.
2006-11-04 02:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
take them out to a fancy dinner with champagne after the party
2006-11-04 03:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Meeowf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gift card to Starbucks for 100.00
2006-11-04 02:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
send them flowers, candy, fruit basket. attach a beautiful card. a gift card from a restaurant would also work.
2006-11-04 04:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by lolo123392000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get them a nice mixer. Go to Williams-Sonoma. Problayy about 130 dollars or so
2006-11-04 02:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by cjordan23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋