2006-11-04 02:34:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Her body is going through changes that are hard for her to cope with. The complaints heard during pregnancy don't last long.
Give it a bit of time. Ask for help. See if your mom can talk to her (if you trust your mom)
Give your kid a better chance than you were given and things can get better from generation to generation - not worse
2006-11-04 02:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by wizebloke 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Okay first consider that she is complaining because being pregnant isn't always fun. You try throwing up every morning, having back pains, having something more inside of you, never getting any sleep, having food cravings, worrying about gaining weight, worry about money.....and that's just the start of stuff pregnant ladies go through I know, I've been there, In fact I worked 40 hours up until the day before I had my son and went back 10 days later, so it isn't as easy as you might think. How about you give your wife a break and listen to her, do something extra for her and quit your bitching, after all, you helped to make her pregnant, she didn't do it on her own, and if you do decide to divorce I hope she sacks your *** on child support and makes it as high as possible. Grow up!
2006-11-04 11:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
:-O I'm thinking that you should probably try and have a baby without complaining at all. Maybe you should read up on it because woman go through alot when they are having a child that "you" helped create. Ever hear of the saying that we lie in the bed we make?
In the first month alone this is what some woman go through. Fatigue, depression, morning sickness, breast changes, excessive saliva, frequent urination, fear of baby’s health, stress. That's just in the first month. It gets harder as each month passes as woman's bodies adjust to being pregnant. You try going through all of that without complaining, until you know what it's like you don't have the right to say when she is complaining to much. But maybe she would be better off without you in her life.
2006-11-07 05:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Katie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy can be a difficult time for both the husband and the wife, but the wife kinda takes center stage since she's carrying your baby. Just remember that this is a temporary thing, and maybe agree that she can complain and be difficult now, but she gets to make it up to you after the baby is born, IF you agree to help her in every way possible with the baby. I mean, you've created a new life with this woman, so be a man and stick it out. You can handle it.
2006-11-04 10:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that's the real reason for wanting a divorce I would seriously rethink your screen name of "2cool". Someone that was 2cool would stick around and help his wife through this extremely hard time, not bolt at the first signs of struggle. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and it is not always perfect, it is hard work to make a marriage work. I feel bad for your wife and precious little baby to have the man in their lives giving up on them already.
2006-11-04 10:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by pinkhopper2003 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When a woman is pregnant, she is going through a phase in which her body is changing, and her hormones are going like crazy, try to understand her, but if you REALLY feel that leaving her, and divorcing her is the best thing to do...then go ahead, and pay the child support for the next 18 years....
2006-11-04 12:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! You are a freak. Maybe you should leave. What your wife is going through is not easy.
Perhaps she and your newborn would be better off without a selfish person like you. Just remember, child support is for real and there is no way around it.
2006-11-04 10:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by playtime0920 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly you should of thought about divorce before having a baby,your wife will not be in total control of her emotions at the moment,you could'nt have picked a worse time to think about divorce,but fortunatly for you it is alot easier to get a divorce these days.
2006-11-04 10:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, you want to leave your pregnant wife? You need serious help. Go ahead-leave and enjoy the next 18 years of child support you will pay. Freak!
2006-11-04 10:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she will just leave you! I left my ex when I was 6 months pregnant and it was the best decision I ever made! Now he gets to pay for everything until my son turns 18! Good luck with that!
2006-11-04 11:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋