don't guys like to return the favor when I do something they really like?
2006-11-04 02:16:20 · 19 answers · asked by tamsi1988 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All they seem to what is to get their hand in my pants.
2006-11-04 02:29:35 · update #1
They just don't. It's not their style.. and if they think you're doing something nice just to get something in return, they really won't return the kindness. For guys to really go out of their way to do some thing nice for a girl, they often have to be blissfully in love and feeling like they are going to lose that girl...stop doing nice things and enjoy time with your friends (a little hard to get)... you may be surprisedl...
2006-11-04 02:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends...are you doing something for a guy with the expectation that you'll get something in return? or are you doing it because it makes you feel good to do nice things for others? Most people can tell the difference...
2006-11-04 02:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by ricktheirish1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there either to selfish or need to be told. Have you asked them to return the favors? I know you shouldn't have to ask that. I'm guessing this is about sexual favors? I love to give my gal oral.
2006-11-04 02:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always return the favor then some one dose sumthing nice for me cuz then that would not be fare im messed in the head lol i do like every thing the the sterotipicl guy would not do lol( i don't even think of sex)
2006-11-04 02:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys are GUYS!! they don;'t think like a chick, are you talking about sexual favors or just stuff in general?
Not to offend men , and no I'm not a Feminatzi.
Guys are simple, sex and a sandwich and there happy.
If they aren't horny give them something to eat. TA! DA!
2006-11-04 02:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first, you shouldn't expect any return. besides that, guys don't know stuffs like that. they are not really good at returning favors. be contented if they know how to appreciate it.
2006-11-04 02:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you do it too often. They expect it and know it will come around again if they wait. Why would they do anything???
You are taking care of everything, aren't you????
Do be too giving and generous .. If it is one-sided, stop being a shlump.....don't measure him by your principles, you will be disappointed... it is not in him... find someone else to do a favour for that appreciates it and you... Be more selective....
2006-11-04 02:21:57 · answer #7 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't get hints. After 18 years of marriage...I know this. My son doesn't get hints either. If you want something...you have to make it plain for them.
2006-11-04 02:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by lisamomde2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grils are from venus and guys are from mars, pls tell them straight in the face what you want, that is more effective and better.
2006-11-04 02:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't always expect a return. It doesn't work that way.
2006-11-04 02:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋