when you first talk to a guy and you really dont know what he is about what is more important to you, the actual words that are coming out of his mouth, or his body language, and how he actually expresses the words that he is coming out of his mouth. In other words are the words that are coming out of his mouth really matter that much. And is it the body language that he sends that you find attractive?
2006-11-04 02:14:20 · 27 answers · asked by canuck131986 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be honest, first thing is always Looks, then body Language, then his words and how he speaks them, but the first thing that will put me off him is his words he speaks, if he talks total c**p then I don't want to know, no matter what he looks like.
2006-11-04 02:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by hotbabes_tracey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The words are the most important thing if you want to get to know somebody .. Let's say hypothetically , that i am a man and i start talking to you . And I said " Do you want to go for a drink ? I can meet you at my favorite bar after i take some of my cigarettes over to my ex-wife ,the old battle-ax is having a nicotine fit , and she's upsetting my kids " .. what did I just tell you about me ? I'm a drinker that smokes ,i have an ex wife and children, right ? I will stop here, but you look a little deeper and you will notice at least 4 other details about me that that I said, but didn't come right out and say ..So yes, what a persons says is top priority ..
2006-11-04 10:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st contact when I talk to a guy or vice versa will DEFINITELY be his body language. That really sends a very accurate info about the guy's personality and intention. A crafty person may be smart but his body languages will always give ways & show his flaws. 2nd info to note is his words that come from his mouth. He may not mean what he says to you but in order to impress a lady, he will do & says nice things to her and that can't be hide or deceived with the re-inforcement of his body languages and eye contacts. Body language can only be attractive when he wants to flirt with you or trying to send signals of love to you.
2006-11-04 10:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are complicated sometimes. When they're nervous they tend to say things that they really don't mean to say. So we end up being confused trying to analyze them. But for some men who are quite transparent and seems not to have a problem expressing themselves they're quite easy to decipher and I'd say the words coming out of their mouth matters the most but the body language strengthens what is being said.
2006-11-04 10:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Damngorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when trying to feel a guy out, to see if we are compatible I would say that the words are most important. If he has a great personality I would fine that extremely attractive. If we were to go on a date, I would then read his body language to see if he truly likes me or not.
2006-11-04 10:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
body language is good but also the words u dont want a complete dud. communicate and ask her questions talk about her make an attraction
2006-11-04 10:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The body language. It is about what he DID NOT say that matters!
2006-11-04 10:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, really. What he says can matter (which does to me a lot, it tells me what he is like) and his body language matters a lot as well. It all depends, what he says and does tells me a lot about him.
2006-11-04 10:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tend to listen to the words and watch his body language at the same time and i relly look at how he does say them cause then you can see if you guys could have a nice chat once and if he would actually be able to talk and not be a jerk.
2006-11-04 10:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by megan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
body language
2006-11-04 10:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋