my boyfriend has a prob. w/ me tlk'n 2 other boys at school! what should i do... should i b-up w/ him or should i still date him?
2006-11-04 01:59:38 · 13 answers · asked by ~HOTTIE~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just apolajized to me yesterday!!
2006-11-04 02:00:14 · update #1
Fact:95% of couples never made it out of school and STAYED together.What's more important someome U probably won't spend 1/4 of ur life with or Friends U will have ur whole entire life.(if they R TRUE FRIENDS)???Plez,Think on thhis for a while!!
2006-11-04 02:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, telling you not to talk to someone is a controlling feature that both men and women do. If you find that you are with someone who won't let you talk to people, keeps you all to him or herself, then run away. It only gets worse if you get married, or start having babies, etc. Jealousy is a horrible thing for the one on the receiving end, and he can apologize all he wants to, but he will always be thinking that your talking to someone you "shouldn't" and you'll always be accused of cheating when all your doing is talking and making friends with other humans. I've been there, and my friends are going thru the same stuff you are and they are either dating or married. I tend to run away fast if a woman tells me to stop talking to my friends, or people I met on the street. Also, jealousy can led to violence when it comes to men "protecting" his mate. If he ever raises a hand to you, never return and never accept an apology. Hope it works out.
2006-11-04 10:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cannibal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the problem persists and gets too much to handle and too much of a bother then dump him. But until then explain to him that you can't not talk to other guys at school because they're all still friends and so on, if he doesn't understand that then he's just overly jealous.
2006-11-04 10:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be the jealous type, but also...he's knows how guys are. They don't care if the girl is dating someone. They'll try to talk their way into getting the girl. You'll either have to break up with him or just watch how you talk to other guys because he is not going to change how he feels.
2006-11-04 10:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes sounds like a keeper how wud u feel if yo bf was talkin 2 otha gurls.jus talk 2 guys as a friend
2006-11-04 10:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how long do you want to put up with a boy that has this behavior? He is sorry for this time huh? till you talk agian? Get my drift?
2006-11-04 10:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you heard of spell check, especially since it is apparent you have boys more on your mind than your studies?
then too why do you want to be saddled with a control freak.
toss him and learn to wait. you have the rest of your life ahead of you. why rush it?
2006-11-04 10:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he continues to have a problen despite his apology, then yes, break up with him. hes too posessive.
2006-11-04 10:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..........break up with him, corz your'e at that age where you should be mixing with a lot of different boy's so you can learn what different boy's are like.......
2006-11-04 10:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that they are just friends. And tell him he is more than welcome to meet them or join in any of your conversations with them. Just make him feel comfortable that they are just friends....
2006-11-04 10:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by Bright Eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋