2006-11-04 01:56:24 · 19 answers · asked by blackcherry101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm still in love with the first boyfriend not my daughter's father
2006-11-04 01:59:33 · update #1
Wow! You really showed him!
Will we be seeing you on Maury to "find the daddy"?
2006-11-04 01:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your daughter's sake you need to decide what you are going to do. If you go back to the EX that cheated on you, that will show her that it is ok for a guy to do that. Would you want her to grow up and get cheated on too? If you are not in love with her father you need to just end it and be on your own for a while until you grow up.
2006-11-04 10:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have caused quite a mess by reacting to his deceit....
Now you have a big decision to make.
Your old boyfriend(daddy of the child) was used by you to get even with the cheater....You will be parenting a child together, so you had better be friends. You should be living on your own and not with either of the men. You should be preparing for the birth and getting set up for your new life. I can assure you if you continue this kind of immaturity and anger you will make more messes in your life.
Go see a counselor and get some of these feeling resolved....
The cheater will not be interested in you now as he has moved on even be foe you broke up... so you can get over that one quick... no use being in a one sided relationship.. it sucks.. and you both deserve better...
The father of your child was convenient at the time, but will only be there for the child , so you don't have to worry about him either. I guess it is going to be just you and the child.. I hope you are more careful in the future about who you sleep with and the protection you should be using. You acted out of anger instead of using your head and moving on... Take care of this baby or give it to someone who can...
2006-11-04 10:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why did you go back to the ex and put yourself in that position.
Was it really love or just lust.
Now you are with child and seems your confused.
You need to really think of the child.Your birth of a child is more important right now. No child should have to suffer because of feelings between the two parents. You need to start some darn good chat with the ex and see if it is love or just desire..
I hope for you it is real love. good luck and best wishes.
2006-11-04 10:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if your ex-boyfriend loves you too, then tell him. Dont' do anything to your child!! Do you know how many women want to raise a child? You are so lucky! Calm down and try to make a plan: How much money you have for you and for your child? Do you live with your parents? If yes, find a good day and tell them! In the beginning, maybe they will be angry, but finally, they will understand your situation. If your boyfriend is a stupid, be with your child and never, never give it to anyone and i am sure that you understand what i mean! Ok? Please, think wise! Good luck sweetheart!
2006-11-04 10:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Melany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I think shes saying she has a daughter from the current boyfriend-- and she also just got pregnant from her ex.
/// whats the question? or are we just supposed to sympathize? Hey thats your life, do what the hell you want-- I hope these dudes arent gonna sit by and let you ruin their lives though
2006-11-04 10:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Airtight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about your ex?? is he with any one now?? The last thing you want to be is the third party, if you still love your ex, do think of your future. And draw the line between your bf. Ask yourself, do you want this child, are you ready to take care of him/her? If you think you can, go ahead, get married, if not ....
2006-11-04 10:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so exactly what is the question??? You're a bit silly to be messing round with your body like this - it doesn't sound like you are very mature or responsible or have much respect for your body - sorry but that's the way it seems. Good luck in your future, I think you'll need it for the sake of your unborn child
2006-11-04 10:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by Luce_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, well, well. So you went and got pregnant. Seems to me your true feelings lie with your ex, your b/f being a surrogate for something that might have been missing in your original relationship with your ex.
2006-11-04 10:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be sooo confused. i would take time off from both and really think about it. do you want confusion when the baby arrives? no! so be strong and tell yourself that no one is as important as you at the moment and really think hard. to be honest though the cheating one will surprise me if he changes, you may just end up heart broken over and over again. Do you not deserve better? take a time out! x
2006-11-04 10:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋