Ive been seeing this guy for a few months and just found out that he sleeps with a baseball cap to bed every night. He's been doing this for years and cant sleep without it. He's very nice and im starting to fall in love with him.....but the cap to bed every night hmmmm.... wut do u think
2006-11-04 01:16:58 · 20 answers · asked by ms_socali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think its SEXY.
2006-11-04 01:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbellavic 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My brother-in-law wore a beenie cap to bed... he got so used to wearing it that it was like it was a part of him, just like his hair is a part of him... it became a natural part of his body.
Try slipping it off his head just once, while he's sound asleep & see what happens... if he doesn't wake up, then repeat the process every time & get his head used to the idea of being without it.
But.. if he wakes up & puts it back on, just let it stay... because if the relationship is one that's 90% good, you don't want to cause friction between the 2 of you over a cap... it wouldn't be worth losing him because of it.
2006-11-04 02:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it something to do with a fear of losing his hair? Maybe someone told him that keeping his scalp warm at night might stimulate follicle growth? Odd sleeping habits can be off putting, but if it doesn't stop you from sleeping, is it really such a big deal? I like quirks in people personally. My significant other only goes to sleep listening to book tapes, now I'm adicted too.
2006-11-04 01:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by LondonGRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Danger. Habitual behavior like that indicates some early childhood trauma that has been sublimated into the cap. This could be very deep. It could mask other problems as well. He needs to do some therapy. You need to know that he can take that hat off before you climb in with him.
2006-11-04 01:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have a favourite pillow, or bolster, or something. So does he- except perhaps it comes in the form of a baseball cap. It could be his security blanket. :)
i have seen such cases before. a guy who holds his hankerchief whenever he feels nervous or stressed- its his security blanket. but when he found the love of his life, he stopped. it takes time.
why are you so bothered? it isnt weird, really. its normal. some people have security blankets. some dont.
2006-11-04 01:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone and dont bother him about wearing his cap..
at least he is getting some sleep..
if thats the only weird habit he has, I see no problem...
2006-11-04 01:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats ummmm. weird talk 2 him about it and see if he will slowly spot wearing it to bed
2006-11-04 01:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Monkeyboots92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to get over it.I'm sure there's many worse irritating things he could do!!
2006-11-04 01:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to seem mean but that's kinda weird.
2006-11-04 01:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's hiding his balding head....
Linus has his security blanket, and your bf has his security hat. Emotional issues if nothing else... think twice my friend.
2006-11-04 01:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it was his father's or something like that making it VERY special to him.. just talk to him about it
2006-11-04 01:19:31 · answer #11 · answered by i♥basketball 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋