My sister, who is 50, tells me she is dating two guys and enjoys the company of both. Although neither one of them has mentioned anything about being exclusive, one guy does not know about the other.
She finds herself in a bind because she has to juggle both and doesn't like getting making up a lie when both ask her out for the same evening.
I told her to just suggest an alternate evening without any explanation other than she has plans for that particular evening.
She insists there's got to be a better way.
Any ideas on how to handle this one?
2006-11-04 01:13:51 · 11 answers · asked by Angela 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with seeing two men . She has to find out which one is right for her and in time she will .I am jealous of her! Hope everything works out for her and thats all you can do .Wait and time will tell.
2006-11-04 01:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She has to either become a better juggler or dump one of the guys unless they are kool with her dating them both(I wouldn't like it myself)
Her other option would be to have them both over for dinner at the same time. Maybe it's time for a threesome.
2006-11-04 09:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by superspiker69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have suggestions. just go on a date with one person at 12:00pm and tell that person your on a date with.that it just not working for me.and of course he gonna say why.tell him some of the things you don't like about him and the things he do.
the next date take him at 8:00pm and tell him that you really like him and you want him to be part of your life but if you don't want him to tell him off like the other date
put first pick the person that you really don't like on a date o.k
2006-11-04 09:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by kesi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no harm in seeing both as long as she likes their company. Your sister and both her friends want to enjoy their freedom. It is ok.
2006-11-04 09:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes 50?
man she must look good for her age
tell. her to enjoy the ride
2006-11-04 09:16:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She not supposed to be involve in the kind of behavior at her age. Let her settle for one of them.
2006-11-04 09:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all she needs is a roaster for the two men
2006-11-04 09:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by ebiraland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's deceiving at least one of them, is that what grownups do ?
2006-11-04 09:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by done wrenching 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say she`s feeling sick ,or she`s in her bad week or something like that,or she`s got to go with her sister and do *i dunno what*... say she`s staying late at work,say she`s going shopping with the ladies ....
2006-11-04 09:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by Riot! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in that evening stay home,or went with who she like more
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2006-11-04 09:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋