me and my cousin , my 1st cousin, are both BI and enjoy hanging out together and sometimes we even do a little making out she is very attractive and we have a lot of fun together. I dont see the problem with it at all.but some people are giving us a lot of crap over it and saying were sick, whats the deal its really starting to get to me . i have been called some nasty stuff and so has she. so what do you think? you can also email if you got time to talk , i could use some one right now who understands email yostacy_1981@yahoo.com
2006-11-04 01:09:41 · 27 answers · asked by mojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are happy don't worry what other people think.they don't run your life you do
2006-11-04 01:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by do you wanna 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've been in the same situation. The family found out, and it didn't go down too well. Socially, it is not acceptable, and medically there is a greater chance of genetic problems, but if you guys are just hanging out, it probably hasn't gotten to that. How do you feel about it, how does she feel about it? What do the two fo you plan for the future. You and you alone have to answer these questions, and worry about how YOU feel, people will always findsomething to talk bad about.
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2006-11-04 10:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mojo--your first cousin is almost a sibling. When you say you guys do a little making out, I'm hoping that you haven't engaged in intercourse. If you continue with your behavior, it may well lead up to that. Incest is criminal cohabitation. It is illegal (against the law) to do this. You will be labeled as a sexual predator, a deviant or a pervert. Already, "some people" are saying things about you and your cousin and calling you both names. Is this how you what the general public to view you? You will be forever referred as the dude who did his own cousin. That's perverted.
2006-11-04 09:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say that kissing your cousin is not okay. Do your parents know about this? what do they say? i'm truly sorry that people have called you bad names but you have to understand that that is not a socially acceptable thing. I think you should find someone else K?
2006-11-04 09:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by jrtootsiepop 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While i wouldnt recomend it, its no one else's business. Just dont have sex pls. These critics could also be after you because you are Bi. Im bi but im too scared to come out, coz i dont feel like dealing with what they have to say.
U will be fine. By the way are you male or female? You can contact me on jst4di@yahoo.com if you want
2006-11-04 09:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by jst4di 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Personally I think it sounds sick. I would never kiss a family member like I would kiss a guy I liked. It's sickening to even think about it.
2006-11-05 09:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you spell Incest? jerry Springer can spell it for you if you have trouble doing so.
Maybe your aunt can be the maid of homor and mom can be the best man. Dad will just have to understand... or maybe dad will make out with your brother...
Illegal in all 50 states BTW...
2006-11-04 09:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you're from but in America that is totally not right. At all. If you're going to make out you shouldn't tell anyone. I wouldn't go farther than making out because your kids will be deformed.
2006-11-04 09:15:55 · answer #8 · answered by tictac_lvr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not that big of a deal, i think one of my cousins is hot, but we've never kissed. It's more of a socity thing. It's just what everyone wants you to think. (it's like if someone was gay 50 years ago) If neither have a problem with it it shouldn't be that big of a deal.
2006-11-04 09:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
think 1 st cousin are not to get married. right? why do you want to do this with her? do you have feelings for her? what if you two get togehter. it's not safe to have children- high risk of down syndrome
2006-11-04 09:13:40 · answer #10 · answered by Apricot Brandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey whats wrong with that?I kissed my cousin before loadsa times.It was a dare but so what it was only for fun!No big deal.Just ignore what there callin you.
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2006-11-04 09:13:59 · answer #11 · answered by im_a_bad_ass_biatch 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋