I did stuff last night that I have never done before. This boy was sooo hot. He wanted to date but I wanted to get to know him better. I guess his idea of getting to know someone better is taking off their clothes. I wasnt like allll against it. But after I left his house I had ABSOLUTLY no feelings for him. Actually I missed my x even more. SO- Do you think that how a guy acts intamently determines right away if you two were ment to be together, or am I overeacting?
2006-11-04 01:04:26 · 10 answers · asked by Tay ;) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were drunk, weren't you? Don't worry. You're not the first girl this has happened to. It happens all the time. It's called a fling. I'd be more worried about STDs or if he videotaped it all....
Be a big girl, pick yourself up, and do something nice for yourself to feel better, like a bubble bath or a red pedicure. Learn from this experience and move on.
2006-11-04 01:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you weren't ready to be that intimate with him and so you are completely turned off by him now and a little upset with yourself for having let it go that far. You don't have to have sex with a guy to get him to like you. Next time get to know a guy and let him see how wonderful you are.
2006-11-04 09:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't overreact. But maybe you felt guilty for having loveless sex. A mans' level of intimacy has nothing to do with whether you're meant to be together or not.
2006-11-04 09:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like it was just sex, enjoy it for what it was and take away what you learnt and use it later with someone else. Just cause a guy sleeps with you does not mean he wants to be with you. Get on with what you want to do and chalk this one up to experience. I hope you used protection?
2006-11-04 09:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound really young and if i was u i would find a better guy who actually cares bout u and not just tha physical stuff
2006-11-04 09:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by m@ck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are woorried that it might be a one night stand, you can always get a replay anytime, anyday. you sure had a wonderful seeeeeexxxxxx
2006-11-04 09:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by ebiraland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider it was you new experience,it\'s necesary aome time to know eachother it\'s come that nice feeling
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2006-11-04 09:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not over reacting. that all guys think about
2006-11-04 09:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Apricot Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not be friend with benefits? seeing that you dont have feelings for him
2006-11-04 09:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are definately overreacting, just enjoy the sex for what it is
2006-11-04 09:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋