How should i go about it?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and i am going to show him i love him by having s e x but does any one know how to make it extra special
what should i wear
what shall i do to set the mood
Help i am still a vergin and i am 18 nearly 19

Answer 1

You say your still a virgin like it's a bad thing, wait till your ready. But if you go through with it, you should go out and by some lingerie that makes you feel sexy, don't worry if he likes it or not, cuz I promise you, he will! To set the mood, there are any number of things you could do, fill the room with candle light, take a warm bubble bath together and hold each other in your arms, put on some soft music in the back ground, maybe buy a dozen red roses, pluck the pettals off and sprinkle them over the bed, in the tub, and everywhere else. Before you get to that point, go out and have a nice date, go to a nice resuraunt, go for a walk together and hold hands, what ever you want to do that will keep the two of you close to each other the whole night. Make sure he knows how you feel about him, and be sure he feels the same way about you.

Answer 2

First things first well done on waiting but I will tell the first time can be an different to what your expecting. As for what to wear well I wouldn't put too much emphasis on these trivial things concentrate on the moment and mood after all just remember this is about you and him so I wish you all the best and things will change after the moment but remember to keep it real as it is only sex and it doesn;t put any bearing on your relationship at all.

Answer 3

Get married first in case he knocks you up. Having sex with does NOT prove you love him. Animals have sex all the time, no love there. You are taking a big chance and have everything to lose, big gamble, what chance is he taking? what does he have to lose if get your pregnant.? Think about this life altering gamble you're willing to take to prove something to a guy that will probably walk out on you if he gets your pregnant. condoms are not 100% reliable by the way.

Answer 4

The fact that you are a virgin and that you love him enough to give him the gift you have never given anyone before will make it extra special. Having said that, candles, soft music and a slinky nightie never hurt.

Answer 5

My advice to you is to wait. But if this is something that you want to do for "you" not him, talk to him about it. No one can tell you what mood is best for you two except you and him. I personally enjoy talking about sex with my partner, it makes it more intimate for me. I know what he expects and he knows what I expect, there are no surpises to kill the mood and it is more enjoyable for both of us. I would think this would be especially the case if this is your first time. So, talk to him...not us.

Answer 6

Your dad and mom will probable merely brush it off as oh nicely he nonetheless desires to enhance, reason i comprehend me being 15 my dad and mom do no longer take something I take heavily haha. So ya merely come precise out and tell them good success~~~

Answer 7

you are a good gf by giving him sex. don't worry about trying to make it extra special, from a guy's point of view, just the sex by itself is special enough

Answer 8

dont just lay there and pretend you like it even though its gonna hurt you i wouldnt wear anything start wearing stuff around the 50th time or so. to set the mood put your hand on his crotch and say "**** me" thattl get him.

Answer 9

just relax and let it happen it should feel completely natural.

Answer 10

heyy