I love my ex-boyfriend very very much. We have sex when we just be couple for just 1 week. I willing to do everything for him. But he change a lot. He do a lot of bad things to me. and it is very very mean.
When my school trip. I saw him goin to find prosititude every night with his classmate. I feel really sad and dirty about myself.
A few weeks ago, i think i can already forget him becuase i dont think about him that much and i HATE him, i even think that i cannot accept a guy who have sex with a prosititude.
My feeling for him come back when i saw his picture in my computer. I really really miss him. we already break up for almost 2 months. I think he already found someone new or maybe having sex with prosititude every night but i dont know y i still love him.
He used to tell my teacher that he still love me when he is talking to my teacher. but if he does, y he is so mean to me? and if he is not, y he have to lie?
Is it infatuation or love? he is really handsome
2006-11-04 00:11:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is a real asshole just try to forget about him. trust me he is feeling sorry for himself. sleeping with a prostitute is a death sentence he will get A.I.D`s and die forget about him ok
2006-11-04 00:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by russel r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it's infatuation. People who do bad things to us usually get the most time on our minds because we wonder why we can't be good for that person. If he is sleeping with a prostitute, do you really want to be with him?
Also, when we have sex with someone, some chemical in the woman's brain is released and we feel connected to that person. My suggestion to you would be to hide that picture or get rid of it. This person does not sound right for you and will only hurt you again. We can't change anyone but ourselves, but yet we put too much energy into trying. The right person for you is out there. Do what you enjoy doing in your life and eventually the right person will come along. Enjoy being who you are and do what you love to do. Your confidence will grow leaps and bounds and confidence is a great trait to have. We don't need to have someone in our lives to make us happy. Be happy with who you are.
2006-11-04 08:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his picture out of your computer, save it on a disk, and label it "Tricks." . Sex and love are two different topics in a man's mind. He may have found a new girlfriend that will have 3-way sex. You could be the type of woman that he wants to date, but not the type that he wants to have dirty sex with. When he matures, he may try to rekindle a relationship with you. If not, you'll find someone else that will appreciate the passion that you have inside of you.
2006-11-04 08:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by WOW MILF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. The feelings you have for him seem superficial and can be interpreted as simply an infatuation. You "love" him b/c he is handsome and treats you poorly. He doesn't respect you at all. In fact, he knows that he can be abusive and you will tolerate his behavior.
Why waste your time with someone that will not treat you like a woman? Why waste your time with someone that does not respect you?
Move on and you'll find someone better.
2006-11-04 08:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jazon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. He probably isn't able to love a woman. Get the picture off your computer. Get every reminder of him out of your life. Fill your life with other things to crowd out thoughts of him. If you think of him, inside your mind, yell "STOP!" and then think of other things. In the mean time, keep your eyes and heart open to meeting someone better.
2006-11-04 08:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by E J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter what it is keep away. As time passes by your feelings for him will fade. And IF you meet someone else those feelings will fade even faster. No one deserves the treatment you have been subjected to, and let's not start a pattern here. Besides I doubt he loves you.
2006-11-04 08:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by islander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him please he is not good for you.
he has a girlfriend and go on prostitute that is the same as cheating!!
at the end you write he is reallyy handsome but what does that has to do with the fact that you love him?
is it reall love than that you feel are just fisycal attraction.
the fact that he is really handsome does not mean that he can act like that to you.
move on and find true love!!!!!!!
2006-11-04 09:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by kelleke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that its realy hard but i think that you need to stop thinkin about and get compleltly over him i don't think you love him you jus miss his comfort but you don't need it if he was mean to you then you need to forget him and find somebody better it will take sum time but somebody will *** along jus forget about him jus think he must not care if he was doin prositutes and stuff....sry let him go
2006-11-04 08:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by becka b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, you misspell the word "prostitute" and there are several grammatical errors in your writing composition. This is obvious the reason that your boyfriend broke up with you because he's ashamed to be with and doesn't to be seen with an illiterate, uneducated girlfriend.
My advice is to seek an ESL or TOFEL class or get an English tutor to help to read, write, and speak correctly.
2006-11-06 00:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its infatuation, u seriously should find a hobby or something to keep ur mind off him because u dont love him and if he is sleeping with prostitutes HE DOESNT LOVE YOU, especially if he is treating u bad...........get ur mind off him, and dont sleep with guys ur dating for a week
2006-11-04 08:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by victorialala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋