I'm a 29 year old guy and I haven't had sex in 10 months because of mental problems?

Question

It's just so hard to meet someone when you don't have money and you suffer from social anxiety. anyone else in a similar situation? I just feel like killing myself sometimes

Answer 1

I think u r under depression,..u shpould seel psychiatrist help,havent have sex shouldnt make u depressed,..there should be some other things in ur life

Answer 2

At 29 years old you should be out enjoying the world instead of thinking about sex and killing yourself. I'm a 59 year old woman and haven't had sex in over a year because my b/f passed away over a year ago. I know exactly where your coming from. I have also thought of suicide but then remembered all I have to live for. Try going back to school, a few classes at a time. No matter what your education is there's always a class that you can take, plus you will come into contact with lots of other people and possibly make a new circle of friends. Volunteering is a great way to forget your problems, no matter what they are. Maybe think about a second part time job to supplement your income. Buck up man, your only 29 years old! You have the rest of your life ahead of you and it will be as good or bad as you make it! Good luck!

Answer 3

You seem to be in a very negative frame of mind at the moment and maybe you should concentrate on getting yourself feeling better before you consider a relationship.
I think a lot of people are in this situation, you must remember that about 1 in 3 people go through mental health problems at some time in their lives.
Try and get involved in something you enjoy- if you enjoy music try and get on a dj course- maybe start an evening class in cooking. Or even volunteer for a charity. These are great ways to meet people and to make you feel good about yourself.
As other people have suggested maybe you should see your doctor if you are feeling suicidal.
Dont be so hard on yourself too

Answer 4

I just lost my brother and his wife to suicide. DON'T do it. there is always hope. you need to get a good support system of mental health professionals and they can hook you into support groups with people that suffer the same things. you can get mental health counseling through free clinics. go check out the groups that are offered. by the way, sex is not the answer either. you need friends, sex will come later.

Answer 5

Sex shouldnt be so important,its what the media makes it look like it is. You should Just enjoy life as it goes. Other then that,if you come by someone u truely love etc.. then go for it.. it deserves to be special.but dont think of it so much,think of how grateful u are to be alive and enjoy life.. haha time flys!

Answer 6

BELIEVE ME.. DON'T BOTHER WITH SEX IF IT'S NOT WITH SOMEONE YOU REALLY WANT..IT'S 99 PERCENT A WASTE OF TIME...IT'S OK TO HAVE PERIODS OF YOUR LIFE WITHOUT. IF YOU'RE REALLY HORNY GO TO A BROTHEL. OTHERWISE FIND A WAY TO CALM YOURSELF THROUGH MEDITATION OR ANOTHER ACTIVITY. SOCIAL ANXIETY IS TREATABLE THROUGH THERAPY. I'VE NEVER BEEN RICH BUT HAD LOTS OF PARTNERS(WHICH IS WHY I SAY THAT 99‰ IS A WASTE OF TIME) SO DON'T THINK MONEY REALLY HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT. THE KIND OF PERSON WHO USES MONEY AS A REASON FOR BEING THERE WOULD ONLY SERVE TO MAKE YOU FEEL USED AND UNLOVED.

Answer 7

I thought that ctryhnny04's advice was wonderful. Maybe you need to check yourself into a hospital so they can help you with your problems. But the whole going back to school bit sounds good to me: You end up meeting people.

Answer 8

Please, if you are feeling this anxious and suicidal, go to a hospital emergency room immediately or contact the Samaritans by phone right away.

Answer 9

sounds to me like you have way too much time on your hands....find something to absorb yourself in that you like to do.