there r several really hott guys at my school and i kinda like alot of them but none of them like me....and i want to kno y...i think its because im ugly...all my friends say im not ugly but thats probally the reason y guys dont like me...wut can i do?how can i dress?how can i do my makeup?how do i act?wut do i say?to make them notice me and not other girls?????please help me!
2006-11-03 23:49:11 · 17 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If these guys don't like you for who you are, the way you dress and wear your hair, then perhaps they are not the guys for you.
2006-11-03 23:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to start with, are you of age to worry about things like this? if you are, then never think you are ugly. there is no such thing as an ugly looking human being. you are just ok in your own unique way.
What men look out for in a girl is confidence. how confident are you of yourself, what is your self esteem like? you could easily be lost in the crowd, in a school, and one more thing show that you are available. i have seen a situation where the hotest chick in school had no date, because everybody was thinking she was not available. so show your availability, and you might get lucky
2006-11-04 08:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ishola S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Wear a skirt
2. Nice red or pink lipstick depending on your complexion
3. Don't wear flat shoes..maybe some with higher heels
4. Pigtails..boys love that too (I think)
5. But foremost-you need to have good character and be approachable. I bet sometimes guys might not approach you cuz maybe you are so cute that they are intimidated?
6. Make friends with one of the boys' sisters, if they have any?
7. Maybe start of a conversation with them about music or movies?!..maybe find out first what they are into......
good luck!
2006-11-04 07:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by modernlifeisrubbish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.
You need to concentrate on SCHOOL not BOYS.
Believe it or not guys like girls who are smart, who are themselves. Yes, they stare at the pretty girls, and everyone wants to date them, but the ones they pick in the long run are the girls who make something out of their lives.
Concentrate on school. You need to learn how to spell and construct sentences, and study hard. Let the boys come to you with homework questions. They will see what a nice person you are and who knows.
Also, always be clean. Keep your makeup simple, wear clothes that are flattering.....not those pants that come 3 inches below your waist and show a big roll of fat.
2006-11-04 07:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First beauty is in the eye of the beholder, second never try to act like someone or something your not creates false impressions, third they probably do notice you but your expectations of how they might act or want them to notice isn't happening. dress the way that you feel most comfortable with out giving the impression your "easy" and if you use make-up go with nomore than enough to highlight your features.
2006-11-04 07:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just be yourself. If you try to dress to impress guys, you are not really being yourself. You are trying to hard. Be yourself. Smile and be friendly. You shouldn't want a guy because he is HOT. You should like a guy because of who he is. That is the problem. Don't you want a guy to like you for who you really are, not just for your looks? Think about it and be true to yourself and you will get a real guy who likes the real you, when the time is right. Don't rush things either. Enjoy your time getting to know people.
2006-11-04 07:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a simple rule: be natural, try not to show that you like them. Just do your daily routine in school. If they still continue to ignore you, ignore them as well. I'll bet that they do not look good as you do not look bad. Just take your time, who knows you'll have the guy that you deserve sooner; you may have been looking in the wrong place. Try looking the other way around. Each one of us in this world has a designated partner, trust me I know. And most of all be happy!!!! Cheers!
2006-11-04 07:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the problem is that all you're interested in is guys. Learn to be genuine and care about things other than guys. Try to only like one guy at a time. The reason that they are turned off to you is a result of the fact that you're boy crazy. There's more to life than this-all girls struggle w/ it, but learn to overcome this. When you become genuine and have more substance to your life than guys, people will naturally be attracted to you.
2006-11-04 07:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kind of a attention seeker... I feel that humble gers with low profile would get guys to notice them more. Especially if there are pretty, they definitely would look more gorgeous. If you try too hard to get attention, your actions might be too loud and you make yourself more annoying. What's worst? You might end up looking like a clown... Haha...
If you really would like to befriend any of the guys, go u to him and date him out.
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2006-11-04 07:55:08 · answer #9 · answered by Nana84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one of the guys to try it out and invite him out for a coffee on a platonic basis to get to know him.If it's not the right one ask the next one and follow this business-like date until you are sure you feel comfortable with one.Good Luck!
2006-11-04 07:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋