i have no experience about oral sex...i hate it cause i feel i look stupid during that and also i dont know anything about it..what should i do and how and also im concerned about the end of the job..so can u help me anyway...maybe my husband asked me to do it for him soon.what should i do he enjoy?
2006-11-03 23:47:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First things is you should be comfortable...
Second is hygiene. Your guy must be clean.
Clean shaved would be better for you.
The play could be elaborate. But cant write all of those here.
2006-11-04 00:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion, if you hate giving oral, then don't do it. Sometimes some sexual acts just aren't worth the hassle. If he truly loves you, he will understand. You two can experiment with different things and find something that you both enjoy doing.
But, if you do decide to give him oral sex, you should do it because you want to, and because you want to please him. The best thing to remember is to keep your teeth out of it. (That sounds stupid and obvious, but some people dont' know it.) Take the cues from him about what feels good. If he gets all rigid and looks in pain, then obviously try something different. If he's moaning and looking like he's being pleased, keep doing what you are doing. Let him know ahead of time if you want him to finish in your mouth or elsewhere. Let him know that he needs to respect your wishes or you won't be doing it again for him. (I think it tastes nasty, on a personal note, and I have my husband finish somewhere else on my body).
Take your time, take deep breaths and try to enjoy seeing him have the sensations that he's having. I was told when I first gave oral sex to think of his member as a popsicle. Suck and lick, move up and down all the while caressing his testicles. Alternate in between sucking and licking to a hand job. As time goes on and he gets more excited, quicken your pace. Just underneath and behind the head of his penis is a spot that really feels good. Pulse your tongue on this spot every once in a while. Remember to keep your teeth out of it!
This could be an all around good experience for the both of you, but if you don't relax and make up your mind to like it (if you do decide to do it) it will not be a good thing for you. And, just like everything else in life, if you decide to continue the oral sex path with your husband, you can feel free to try different things with him as time goes on. Also, ask him what he likes and what things he would like you to try to make it feel better. Good luck and I hope that the decision you make will make both you and your husband happy and feel more connected.
2006-11-04 07:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do if you want to learn is watch a porn video. Those girls do exactly what a guy wants in oral sex. You don't have to swallow. Let him finish on a towel or something.
2006-11-04 08:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by new18000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different. You will have to ask him what he wants. The only two things that you really need to know is (1) be careful with the teeth, (2) don't tell him not to ***, it kills the mood. (if you don't want him to finish in your mouth, just pull out before the explosion. If you do take him all the way, spit or swallow is up to you.)
2006-11-04 07:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this will sound dumb but practice on a banana-or on a sucker-some girls get their start that way as I was told-- it makes the perfect substitute--and if you never tasted it before, just tell him that, some girls like the taste some don't, its all about being at ease doing it - swallow or spit it out ( in the bathroom ) but not on him - that's bad manners----good luck
2006-11-04 08:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could explain it to you, but you would get more out of it if I showed you. Give me a call. I'll try to squeeze you in
2006-11-04 07:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by outlaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many sites on the net with all the answers.
2006-11-04 08:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by paypaldoppie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do whatever you are comfortable with. But if you really don't feel comfortable doing it, DON'T do it. If your hubby loves you truely, he will be able to understand.
2006-11-04 07:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by Nana84 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
may be u could hav an experience wit me..//am a good teacher
2006-11-04 07:50:28 · answer #9 · answered by logu - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u dont like that
if he agree means there is understanding and after all ur not slave
2006-11-04 07:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by desert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋