a guy with a good sense of humour but weeks after complain they always get the clown? I have heard this so many times. I have never heard anyone looking for a 'reliable sober man'.
2006-11-03 23:40:25 · 21 answers · asked by Thx 4 All The Fish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say it's good and attractive for a guy to have a sense of humour but he also needs to have other things going for him aswell like you say being reliable, caring, honest and loving.
I think a persons sense of humour is on of the 1st things a girl notices besides looks the other things come later.
Ow yea and i cant be doin with drunks so sobers good!
2006-11-03 23:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grendle is right.
I've no sense of humour whatsoever and bnever had any problems.
Better to:
1. offer dependable prospects (usually economically)
2. a. learn to give the appearance of listening to the vaccuous babbling that pases for conversation among the female of the species and b. appear to take it seriously.
3. Enjoy shopping.
You can be as ugly as a post, by the way, but always wear good shoes, and don't use bad language.
2006-11-04 02:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the individual I suppose. I personally like guys who act the clown, they're usually fun, interesting, know how to make you laugh and have tons of good friends. Too serious is boring. I think the answer is knowing when to be serious and when to be funny. If a guy can strike the right balance then he's a winner!!! :-)
2006-11-03 23:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by hannahrarian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they not like the reliable sober man they like only a man who has a good sense of humour
2006-11-03 23:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by jayesh j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Clowns doslapstick - not the humour I'd want in my life.
A sense of humour means not takign things too seriously and being witty.
2006-11-03 23:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy with a sense of humour...not the joker of the pack.
2006-11-03 23:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sense of humor is one of those "polite fictions" that girls like to tell interviewers. Check out who women bond with and it is almost invariably men with power - physical strength, monetary wealth, intellectual prowess, social standing, political influence, whatever.
This is genetic. Inborn. And sensible.
Look, if your goal is to become physically incapacitated for six or seven MONTHS reproducing your genetic pattern for posterity, you too would be looking for "a provider" to ensure survival of yourself and your babby.
Nowadays, there are few lions roaming the sidewalks, and it is not hard to hunt-and-gather at the Safeway or Food Barn store. But the instinct is still there.
So get a job, stop joking around, make something of yourself, then see how you do.
2006-11-03 23:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love reliable men. Sober...I just assume/expect.
2006-11-04 00:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because good humor and clowning around is NOT the same thing. I like my husband's humor, but don't like it when I'm the butt of a joke or gag. I don't like when he throws a used damp paper towel at me and thinks it's hilarious. I like when he can make me laugh and smile. But not when he thinks he's a cut-up. I guess it's how it's presented, and who is the butt of the joke. IF you think that calling your girlfriend a 'blondie' is funny, then I assume that she won't and that you'll end up dumped.
2006-11-04 00:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sum women just love the idea of dating a loveable rogue. They only do reliable once they are married
2006-11-03 23:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by mistress_cat_in_boots 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what they mean is they like lots of attention, and when the silly ice breaker jokes are gone, theses need to be replaced with compliments, sweet little gestures and other things that make us smile.
2006-11-03 23:51:50 · answer #11 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋