wel u see,i have been goin out with this guy for a month now and he is soo nice bt the only thing is,is that whenever im txtin him he wont answer back and i always seem to be the one that is phoning him up,he never seems to make a big effort!do you think he is still entrested or is it just me?
2006-11-03 23:39:21 · 13 answers · asked by ~*Polka Dot Chick*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop texting and ringing him as much - in the early days its true that treating em mean keeps em keen. Men like a challenge - you're not being one. Get on with your own life and let him text and call you. then watch him come running.
2006-11-03 23:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell how he feels, because some people make more of an effort in a relationship than others. However, when you are with him, if you feel that he is into you, then he is. Just know that some people react differently in a relationship than others. Some may be too forceful. Some may just go with the flow. Only time will tell.
2006-11-04 07:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't let men do the chasing like it used to be? I'm not sure men are ready for the emancipated new woman. A woman who plays equals and thinks there's no need playing hard to get still isn't fully appreciated and may well appear too desperate...or...what do you guys say?
2006-11-04 07:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Brownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to chill out a lil bit, don't make yourself seem too keen otherwise it'll put him off, he probably doesn't phone or text you alot because he trusts you and doesnt think he needs to check up on you whereas he prob thinks that you are checking up on him, call him less, it might give him the incentative to call you more
2006-11-04 07:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to that first answer....it is spam! it doesn't seem that you are desperate...it just seems like you care more....maybe you should stop calling him...then wait and see how long it takes for him to call you...if a week goes by then don't even talk to this guy anymore. also, i know that if i sent text messeges to someone who wouldn't text me back....then i would stop that, too....
2006-11-04 07:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... Maybe you should try to be "hard to get" at times too. People normally don't cherish what they can achieve easily. It goes for both guys and gers. But if you try "TOO HARD to get", he might target someone else. Try to give him alittle hot and cold. He maybe asking for more.
=p
2006-11-04 07:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Nana84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes., may be still he is interested in you untill he is not behaving badly with you
2006-11-04 07:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by abdulqader e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop contacting him. See how long it takes for him to contact you and what he says. I think that alone will answerer your question.
2006-11-04 07:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by bill a 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, a relationship is a two way thing.
2006-11-04 07:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by XhappytalkX 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
back up a bit
see what happens
2006-11-04 07:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by q6656303 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋