ok heres how it goes.................... i dunno how manyth time ive posted all this on yahoo answers... but well i think its the only way,, ok the guy i like is in london since more than one n a half month...be4 he left we were best buds n i kinda started liking him.. wenhe left i was depressed not to see him for the longest time as we were ALWAYS on msg EVERYDAY.... now tht hes gone i miss him like crazy n cried my self to sleep.... since hes gone ive not heard from him.. NO NOTHING... i dunno whts he doing there or whtever....(ive mailed him 3rice n got no reply) hes not come online since a month... i thought ill clear out everythin today cuz its his birthday n i would call london.... it was my bad luck I GOT THROUGH a wrong no.... the next time i tried it said the no isnt in use.....i so had thought of everything from be4....n now tht the days gone like an ordinary day thinkin n cryin i dont mind mailing him WISHING and sorting stuff....but itll hurt me even more i he doesnt reply
2006-11-03 23:30:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well my personal opinion is that .....if u and him has a future u will catch him one day don't run after him.....walk after him....i'am sure he will contact u himself one day ONLY if he is interested in you....think what's the use if u contact him and he is saying that he is marrying someone else...it's better that just wait and if GOD will want and u both are made up for each other...he will contact u....and DON'T RUN AFTER HIM...JUST PRAY TO GOD....IT WOULD HELP...BELIEVE ME TRY ONCE...
2006-11-03 23:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by mr_dreamer_007 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh darling, I know exactly how you feel. The pain and hurt is unbearable at the moment, but please know that in time your wounds will heal.
You've no way of contacting him other than the ways you've already done so and you've had no response.
As much as it will make you cry to hear this, and as much as I don't want to make you cry- he may well have found someone else.
And even though Hollywood tells us to wait and hope, to never give up and to fight for your love. The sad, cold truth is that that never happens in the real world.
I am so very sorry.
It may be time to try to move on.
As painful and as harsh as that may be to hear, if you waste another moment trying to recapture that which is lost- you will miss out on everything else that is going on in your life.
*gives long, warm embrace*
Good luck my lovely.
The Iceman.
2006-11-04 07:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe that you are that dumb not to take the hint. He is plainly ignoring you. For all you know he might be having a rollicking time with a London chick. Just forget him. Its best for you.
Of course you can send him a 'Happy Birthday' message though. That would be the ultimate test. If he responds, good. If he doesn't, even better...for you. But if he replies don't forget to ask him why he gave you a dud telephone number.
2006-11-04 11:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey girl,
I have just read every single answer people have given you the same advise over n over again.so, i wont say everything again.all i want you to know is.i know how it feels.it feels like the deepest sea inside your chest is aching and your heart cries out even if your tears dry.
i am telling you all this because i know that you seem to be a sweet girl n i would not want you to just become like crazy fool waiting for his mail or call or anything else.if he wants to or wanted to contact you it doesnt take no time.
i use to talk for hrs to my best buddies from london for hrs.its really cheap calling from thr,even if he dint have time to chk his e mail ..he could have took out 50pence(40 INR-Indian Rupee) to call you for 1 min.So,stop torturing yorself in his dream!...he has been one of those ppl who take girls or a girl for a ride n then somebody else or get busy in thr own world.After that he may come back to you and say sorry(because some other girl might break his heart n then he would want to get back to you)but i think that time u should not forgive him...just say to him ..be my friend as my other friends and dont give him the same place in your heart again and if he is truley sorry for his actions,mistakes now.. then see him for next 1 year and you would know if he diserves u or not.
Hope this helps you in understanding things!
You take good care of yourself!
b'bye
2006-11-04 08:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Wisdom Of The God 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to london and find him , if u really love him and want to be with him then find him otherwise u are going to have to get over him and move on. but still try and if all fails find someone else.
best of luck i know i'm not the best with this sorry
2006-11-11 02:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by seandudczak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop crying and get on with your life. If you are really meant for each other not distance nor time will keep you apart. He will surely be coming back to you . But if you are not meant for each other , then no matter what you both do, you will never be together. So go out and enjoy yourself right now.
2006-11-04 07:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well dear, there isn't really anything you can do, it's tough and hard, but you goto let him go.
It's not what you want to hear, but there really isn't anything else to tell you.
Maybe he will contact you again once he's settled down, and maybe he won't you need to move on though.
hang in there
2006-11-04 07:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Muriel V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not think too much of this relationship
be happy with the memories and move on
give it one last mail like a Christmas greeting and be satisfied
2006-11-04 08:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hata sawan ki ghata!! Your life is not less important to wait for somebodys reply. Go one with life. Ek nahi to dusra aa jayega.
2006-11-05 05:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MAY BE THIS IS THE 5TH TIME I AM ANSWERING YOUR QUESTION...BUT THE PROBLEM IS YOU ARE NOT OPEN TO DIRECT AND HEALTHY SUGGESTION YOU HAVE MINDSET OF YOUR OWN ...I HAVE TOLD YOU TIME AND AGAIN THAT YOUR FEELINGS ARE NOTHING BUT AN INFATUATION...LET IT GO ...IF HE EVER FELT ANYTHING FOR YOU HE WILL CONTACT YOU.....YOU STAY PUT AND LIVE YOUR LIFE TO ITS FULL...
2006-11-09 06:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋