Will i ever find her? Have had a string of bad relationships the past 4-5 years. All i want is to be a family man and have my own kids, Is that asking for too much?
2006-11-03 23:22:33 · 16 answers · asked by vampire_o3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What problems were you having in your past relationships that made them bad? Well, dont give up, I hope you find the love you are looking for.
By the way....im single!
2006-11-03 23:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Your talking about a true soulmate then whose to say You`ll find them in this lifetime anyway.My answer is You`ll hopefully find someone who`ll give You what You need and You`ll give each other some happiness.That`s all You can do.Don`t rush into a relationship,and make important hasty descisions.What about a lasting relationship ?That`s more realistic.Someone for mutual love.Put it to one side this soulmate dilema.If You leave it too long You may never hav e Your own children,or perhaps You cant father them,who knows.Meet someone who already has children if Your that bothered.Good luck
2006-11-04 07:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not asking to much to have a family . You need to relax. Stop trying so hard to reach your goal. When dating a woman she needs to have some of the same goals you have to make the relationship last. Any bad relationship has broken down with communication first. Remember to communicate fully with you partner honestly and sincerely, sometimes iy hurts and your so-called partner is not on the same wave legnth as you. Therefore, you break up, but better to find out incompatability sooner than later. Happy Hunting
2006-11-04 07:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by MeToo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know what? Both my husband and myself wanted the same thing for so long! Thats all we longed for before metting one another. I was already pregnant when I met him and to my surprise he was excited to meet the baby. Anyhow, After the birth of my son, and after dealing with everything we have gone through together... It takes much much more than just dating once a week or whatever the case may be. There needs to be a commitment from both ends... you both need to have the want and the knowledge to know that there are going to be hard times and many fights.... and many tears shed... but there will also be many good times to share... and both of you need to beable to make it through the hard times... ya know what Im saying? To answer your question tho... I think that after going through what weve been through we have both doubted what we wanted to begin with... My husband use to think that he wasnt ready to be a father and that this marriage is to much for him to handle... And Im sure all couples go through that.... We are a young couple as well... My husband is 20 and I am 22.... Its been a hard road but I wouldnt trade it for the world...
Hope this helps a bit
2006-11-04 07:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by greygirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never pressurise a woman into starting a family. If she suggests it first then fine.
2006-11-04 07:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by mistress_cat_in_boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry for you man, but just keep on with the patience and i know you will be rewarded accordingly and dont rush into anything coz you may end up regretting your move. good luck
2006-11-04 07:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will...your future wife is probably on here too asking the same question!!
2006-11-04 07:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by ang_172 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
looking to much.. stop looking, & be open to possibilities of dating a single parent then you can be sure you want your own kids
2006-11-04 07:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by karmakrazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out astrology to see which signs you are compatible with. this way you have an idea, who you are looking for. If you know who you are looking for you, will find her.
2006-11-04 08:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find your soulmate in heaven.
2006-11-04 07:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋