Is he always there for you?
Do he do the little things?
If you two have kids, does he take care of them?
Does he help you when he can?
Does he take you places?
Is he always home at night?
Those are all good things. He may have been raised not to tell anyone about his affections. You think woman are only told to be this or that? Reality check, as boys many of use were raised to be part of the he-man mystique crap where guys were brainwashed into thinking they had to be "strong and silent".
Bad things, does he:
Say he's working late?
Leave often to go "out with the guys"?
Ignore the kids?
Expect "services" and then when he's happy it's off to sleep?
Never helps you as "That's women's work" and yet the house is a POS?
Those are bad things.
If you have all the above he loves you. If not, check to see what's really going on.
2006-11-03 23:27:34
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answered by Geo-Guy 3
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Has ur hubby taken u for dinner , has he given u a rose ,,, or has he ever helped u in cooking or in house hold work .....if yes ,,,,then do u think he does not loves you ..no husband will do these things if he doesnot love his wife
2006-11-04 16:45:11
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answered by ruth 1
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Perhaps you don't say it too?! Try expressing your love and let's see what happens. Observe more his actions, actions speak louder than words. If he shows love and concern in his actions , then there's nothing to worry about. There are certain men who are not expressive of what they feel.
2006-11-03 23:59:44
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answered by ? 7
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even my hubby does not express his love but i know he loves me as he takes good care of me and my child he plays with him he is very busy but stiil i know he loves me u can know by his actions whether he loves u or not.
but 1 thing the person who does not know to express their love does not meand that they dont love u. so try and find out by urself
2006-11-04 01:49:39
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answered by simran 3
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Why did you marry him?
Men rarely change. He was this way before you married him. He is this way afterwards. Change your attitude towards him. Believe in your mind everything he does is a expression of his love for you. You will see things differently.
2006-11-03 23:22:10
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answered by Trollhair 6
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not necessary that u can express love only by saying it...try looking for those small hints......like he not leaving home until hesays bye to u....or him being dependent on u fr everything (even if its a pain sometimes....c'mon dats all a part of life,isnt it??)
2006-11-04 04:03:52
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answered by dats me! 2
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.........he's probably just one of those quiet blokey, blokey , type's. Once or twice a day or so, just give him a peck and a bit of a cuddle every now and again, then after a while he should begin to start taking a bit of a liking to it....Once he start's catching on to it, he may even start to think about trying it out on you as well...It might be worth a shot, corz who know's,..it might even end up working.......
2006-11-03 23:45:06
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answered by peanut 5
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Thats ok. Untill he is not having any extra affair, you should not worry. It can be just that he is a little bit shy, or assumes that you know he loves you.
2006-11-04 21:53:16
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answered by manoj Ransing 3
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i think he does , you can find it out for yourself if he doesnt give him some space and ignore him a little and see orvtake a short vacation to ur mothers place,, u will b able to find out
2006-11-04 00:21:08
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answered by emily 3
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may be hes going through a bad phase.... dont get low... talk to him... U show him yr love.... hes yr husband afterall!!
2006-11-03 23:31:46
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answered by Anonymous
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