me and my girl have been together for almost 2 years. We have a big prroblem when it comes to trust. I love her alot but everytime we argue she seems to bring up the fact that she will never trust me.i lied to her probally like 2 times when we started going out. Besides they were little white lies. what should i do to get her to trust me? She gives me alot of problems when i go out with my friends.
2006-11-03 22:57:52 · 13 answers · asked by MR. you dont know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lie is a lie and theres no startin over
2006-11-03 23:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by allthrottlenobottle2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should stop the lying and start being truthfull. The fact that you say you only lied about 2 times means you lied more then 2 times and saying they were little lies does not matter. You want to be in a relationship where your partner keeps saying little lies?
By the sounds of it you are not saying the reasons why she does not trust you. I mean where you flirting with another girl or something? If she does not trust you talk to her, maybe invite her when you are hanging out with your friends.
2006-11-04 07:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is difficult to get back into the trust circle once you get out. You should really start looking for another girl but this time don't do those things you call 'little white lies'. Good luck man!
2006-11-04 07:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by beta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't trust you because you told little white lies in the beginning of your relationship right?? Trust is the foundation to any relationship If she can't trust you ..you need to move on no relationship can last on lack of trust .
2006-11-04 07:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know wat yr going thru cause im in the same situation its true from a girls point of view you BETRAYED HER she feels like you wernt thinking of her when you did it the person she loves the most turned the other way Well thats how I feel im still dating ly bf and i love him very much but lying shows me that HE IS CAPABLE OF DOING IT!! I dont wanna loose him so yeah im a little protective but hey a girls gotta do wat a guy wont do cheers take care!!
Hey support her **** for the mean tym mayb afterwards she will learn to trust you all in good tym!!
Peace GOD BLESS§§
2006-11-04 07:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
little white lies turn into big lies. I would say tell her the truth and always tell her you love her
2006-11-04 07:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to lie to her
she ain't gonna ever change her mind once she has made it up.
This way she will know that she was right (women like to be right all the time) and will continue to stay with you.
Dumping her will serve no useful purpose as all women are like this. (Unless you can get one with biggar bazookas)
Its a women thing
2006-11-04 07:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell her that it hurts you to know that she does not trust you and you want to know how you can gain her trust
2006-11-04 07:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by GINA D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oc?
write confessions.
give to her.
lie again?
she gives it to someone who means alot to you. (dno how old u are but like a mum // dad? )
just be honest fromnow on.
don't fight?
make it up to her.
make her special &&. loved?
good luckkkkkk!!!!!
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2006-11-04 07:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by anything2getin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she knew some things about you that you don\'t know
or probably she is interested in someone else
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2006-11-04 07:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋