i really love my long distance gf, and i havnt seen her for ages, but i have paid all her bills i have tried to kiss her when i have gone to visit her asked her to stay over at the hotel and told her i wanna make love to her but she said she wasnt ready we have kissed a lil but nothing passionate, though she says she is passionate and was like a rabbitt with previous bf, she says she fancies me, but i no longer sure, but she still wants me to pay her bills, she has no job but considers she deserves the best, what should i do?
2006-11-03 22:55:56 · 19 answers · asked by john d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wake up and smell the coffee on your own planet?
2006-11-03 22:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use Your common sense ! Stop paying Her bills.Does it matter what Her sex life was with previous boyfriend?.A new relationship`s not the same.She might have emotional hang-ups,or just conning You.If she doesn`t want to know when You stop paying the bills ,then You`ll soon know.Sounds like You need a girlfriend You can keep an eye on nearer to home.If Your not living together only a mug would pay Her bills,especially if Your not getting any favours !!!!
2006-11-04 08:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said long distance, so there's a possibility that some things have changed without you seeing it. maybe your girl friend's taking advantage of you. if she's like a rabbit with her ex, why isn't she like a rabbit with you? but maybe you should look on the other side of the moon too, because maybe your girl might be really NOT ready about making love with you. my advice is, stop paying her bills. if she asks for you to come back or she asks you why you stop, then maybe you'd see she's after your money. please, be careful with whatever you do. you might get hurt. (if you ever make love) she might even "invent" a baby and ask you to marry her just because of your money.
think before you act, pal.
Good day! =)
2006-11-04 07:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by i'm_not_the_same 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The ONLY reason she's said she was like a rabbit with her ex is so that you will think it will be like that between you two in the future, so you will keep handing over your pay checks.
GET OUT NOW! She's stringing you along for all she can get.
Want my advice? If she loves (or even just likes you) and not just your wallet she will still be your gf if you stop the money.
Most women don't need to be paid to be in a 'relationship'... Please, please stop letting this ho taking you for a ride.
2006-11-05 06:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bunny Feet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy she sure found a sucker in you..
You've been asking for opinions on this for days and you always get the same response.
She's out screwing other guys like rabbits and just uses you to pay her bills it's pretty obvious..
2006-11-04 07:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Urm... some girls dun like to make love like so soon. Perhaps when u 2 are closer? however, is the bill very high? If it is, den i think u can stop... It's not rite to pay for her? Tat's my opinion... If u say she was a rabbit with her ex, perhaps they are long together? Well, hope for the best! dun fret much! :D
2006-11-04 06:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by bonkified_fl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm...you need to lay it all out flat, it seems like you care and want to get intamite like a normal guy but it seems like the way you put it shes using you, ask her straight out if she cares or is just using you, or don t pay her bills once, see how she reacts. I have NEVER had a guy pay bills for me and I still be with them
2006-11-04 06:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by mojo09226 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's got you as her doormat then. Get up off the floor, dust yourself down and consider yourself lucky you never married her.
You are just a meal ticket so get outta there and look elsewhere for love. its clear to me you wont find any with her.
2006-11-04 06:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by Scatty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, quit paying her bills. Why are you paying for them when you don't even live with her nor are married to her????????? Second, try to get her to become more passionate, don't force her or anything, entice her.
2006-11-04 06:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by blissfully_rebellious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, you are just a meal ticket. If she wanted to make some sort of commitment she would be more sympathetic to your needs. Count your losses and move on.
2006-11-04 07:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her quick !! She is taking you for a long ride to the court house ...< bankrupcty .> She deserves the best then tell her to get up off her *** and work to get the best!!
2006-11-04 07:01:16 · answer #11 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋