I have been getting close to this guy who has had a hard time committing to me, we see each other every day. If i don't go to his house he rings me asking where I am, and I go. Our new activity together is i now go grocery shopping with him once a week. When we first got close i could speak to him about everything and anything.
Now I know i am pushing him away because I am scared he will hurt me. This has resulted in a barrier between us and I hardly speak now. He have idle chit chat but mainly i sit there in scilence watching tv or playing with his dogs.
We have spoken about this sort of and he said he was worried I no longer needed him, i tried to explain that wasn't the problem, but he had to get out of the car and thats where that conversation stopped.
He is hanging in there cause he still wants to see me everyday. But his non commitment is making me non talkative. Any suggestions how I can get passed this? I am scared he is starting to see me as an empty vessel
2006-11-03 22:53:31 · 7 answers · asked by t_ouk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want to end the relationship with him or would you like to continue your relationship? If you truly feel a way, talk to him, don't keep quiet, and tell him what you really feel inside.
2006-11-03 23:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by cheese sticks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer you leave him and take a break from relationship stuff. But start dating if you feel lonely. You don't have to feel bad about yourself. If you like him talk to him but if you don't don't bather, just leave ok.
2006-11-04 07:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by beta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a 2 way street, and it doesn't sound like he is taking the time or energy to get closer to u.
2006-11-04 06:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woahhhhh tought break.
seems like me and my friends.
there's something there but there's not?
tlk 2 him?
im a hypocrite. i cant do it.
but dont let it go on
if ur just feeling like this then maybe he should no?
good luckkk!!
2006-11-04 06:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by anything2getin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better
2006-11-04 06:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by eeekkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more reticent,this will be alesson to you for the future to not teel boys so much
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2006-11-04 07:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so quiet!
2006-11-04 07:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋