If I left him he would kill himself.. Everytime I even mention a break he tells me how he will kill himself and swear on god. Sometimes I don't know how to take it. I want to be with him but sometimes I just want to let him go. Its been rough for me and him and I guess I want to take the easy way out but I'm afraid he will kill himself... I could never live with myself...
2006-11-03 22:06:49 · 10 answers · asked by j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you know what that's called? emotional blackmail
2006-11-03 22:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by out of my wit's end 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using that to keep you there. Odds are he wont do anything if you leave. Even if he did, you cant control that. If he is that unstable then it is not your fault. You need to tell him that by saying this to you he is being very selfish and that you won;t tolerate that. You dont want to live your whole life with someone if you arent head over heels in love. Guilt will make you stay awhile but not forever.
He is only thinking of himself. Take a lesson from him and start thinking of yourself and what is best for you.
2006-11-04 06:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by BlondeBarbie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He needs help he's obviously mentally unstable.
Personally i think it's all hot air ..but if he did kill himself it wouldn't be your fault.. he's the one with the problem not you.
I'd end it.. It sounds like you're unhappy and theres no point in staying in a relationship if you're not happy.
2006-11-04 06:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about the problem your feeling no point in argueing as it doesnt get you anywere.....is he really depressed? if not the i dont think he would kill himself its just all talk....people have to be very low to end the life....sounds like hes very possesive and doesnt want anyone else to have you... you cant have your cake and eat it too relationships are 2 sides and you have to work together to make it work.....
2006-11-04 06:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get professional help for him. You need to live your life also, and you don't want to end up with a person like that in the future. never know he might become abusive with you
2006-11-04 06:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by gocash26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not right to stay in a relationship where love is no longer felt, give yourself a chance...talk to him and if he still insists that he will commit suicide...then tell him that you are not accountable for his actions...it's his problem not yours...Goodluck!!!
2006-11-04 06:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just saying this to make you feel guilty! its all a false pretence to make you not leave him... he sounds like a psycho, maybe you should leave him!
2006-11-04 06:12:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter's ex told her that alot and he's still alive. Get him some help
2006-11-04 06:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to go, he wants to go.
Maybe you could see about going to Counseling together.
If he won't go, it would be over.
You would have tried.
2006-11-04 06:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to control you. tell him goodbye. have police on stanby in case his threats are serious.
2006-11-04 06:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋