I loved hanging out with my best friends boyfriend. I thought we were just friends but he told me he wanted more. So behind her back we got together and he broke up with her for me. But now there are consequences to pay. so what do i do and how do i fix my friendship?
2006-11-03 21:31:48 · 17 answers · asked by Estefania 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well my best frind wanted to break up w/ him but he asked me to get w/ him and i cant say no that is too mean
2006-11-03 22:06:11 · update #1
You will lose a best friend but may onset a deep, meaningful and profound relationship. Thats it..
2006-11-03 21:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what friendship, i am sorry but if you had done that to me, there would be no friendship left. you say you loved hanging out with your mates boyfriend that doesnt sound like being a mate either.. of course there are consequences and i think your mate is better off without you in her life. real friends dont do that to each other.. fair enough its the blokes fault as well but did you really think there wouldnt be consequences for something so destructive to your so called mate. she has been let down by 2 of the people she most loved in her life
2006-11-04 05:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by pankypaxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my friend I would kick your A.... Obviously you weren't her friend because friends don';t do each other like that. What comes around goes around. I hope he does the same thing to you because you deserve it. I don't think you can ever fix the friendship. The trust is now broken. You 2 still might talk but it won't be the same.
2006-11-04 05:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm you definately don't take the crap that your best friends going to dish out to you but you stand strong & take it to a point. And don't let the golden dick get away with it either. Youre a very silly girl but hopefully this will be s lesson to you. I really don't blame your friend for not wanting a friendship with you. You do desserve everything that's coming to you though. Good luck
2006-11-04 05:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really isn't worth it I have one rule when it comes to life never take a friends b/f g/f it ain't worth it a good friendship can last a life time but if they would do that to your friend they are likely to do it to you. I would dump the guy and try and make things better with your friend, actually I wouldn't cause I wouldn't have done that to a friend but you get my meaning.
2006-11-04 05:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by wren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't fix your friendship. Those are the consequences that you have to pay. Betraying your friend's trust by banging her boyfriend has revealed you for who you are. Sorry, can't turn back time, I'm afraid.
2006-11-04 05:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As there very well should be consequences..You don't take someones boyfriend if she's a friend..
You probably just ruined your friendship over a guy..not smart
2006-11-04 05:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of this bloke. Your friend should mean more to you than him. And anyway if you get with him he will just do it to you as well. He is a cheater and you were a good friend to find out, but you shouldn't have gone behind her back.
2006-11-04 05:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will never be the same your friendship,I know i did what you did although he was married and I thought we were just friends till he made a move and I still re get it to this day,and in the mean time I lost a best friend it was just plain dumb of me.
2006-11-04 05:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was totally wrong. Now you need to decide whether you really want her boyfriend. If yes then you both need to go jointly and explain the situation to her. There are 50-50 chances of she again becoming your friend.
2006-11-04 05:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋