How does that even make sense? I mean, if being lonely basically means that you want contact with other people, then shouldn't you want to go to talk to them? It doesn't make any sense. How can I feel completely alone when I know there are tons of people right down the hall from me who I could go hang out with if I wanted to, only I don't want to. It's like I don't want to be alone but I even more don't want to interact with people...
2006-11-03 21:14:39 · 11 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It could mean that your depressed you should probably see a doctor about your issues.
2006-11-03 21:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well sweetheart im sorry you feel this way.It never feels good when things like this happen.And your probably right that he doesnt care cuz if he did he wouldnt be acting like that.my suggestion about this is move on because if he really loved you that much he wouldnt be doing this to you.I mean ya people get angry and dont want to talk or whatever but thing is people that really love you arnt just going to blow you off and pretend like you dont exist.Generally speaking.I will also say though, there are or can be ecceptions.Its not always the case and I dont know the whole situation so i cant really say.anyway back to question.Spend time with the people that you know that love you.They will always help you cheer up.Thats just one of the wonderful reasons that they are there.Thats just one of the things that family does for each other.Happy music helps even some that makes you sad.Crying is a good way to release your emotions and help you feel better.You could even go to your mom or dad and just ask them to hold you and give you some comfort.I will also tell you to try not to dwell on it that is the worst thing you can do.I understand that is very hard but try your best ok.I have felt lonely before and so have many others its something that people go through once and a while.Life isnt easy.Just keep plugging through it, you will be ok i promise.Just keep your chin up the best you can every day will get a little better.another thing you can do when you feel like that is go for a nice peacful walk by yourself.It works for me.Well i really hopes this helps at least a little.I hope you feel better soon.Take care.
2016-05-21 22:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lack self confidence and self esteem, and fear rejection i see from an other question u asked is why do fat and dysfunctional people go on line dating we are all dysfunctional to a point when u make comments like that it shows that you also have problems also and show little re guard for other peoples feelings having comments like that is a way for you to feel better about yourself at the expence of other less fortunate people if u show genuine concern and int erst in people, go down the hall and meet new people i am sure if u have a good attitude and show respect people will warm up to you and u will get friends
2006-11-04 00:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by zeek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, thats me. im lonely and lonesome, and basically, I need somebody to talk to. However, its not that easy to find somebody to interact with. Of course, there are tons of people out there, whom you can chat and play with, but how many of them can REALLY relate to you? Being lonely doesnt mean that you dont have friends. Of course I do. Lots of them. When Im with them, or with my nephews/niece, Im enjoying their company,but the moment i go to my room, or go to some place where im alone, there, again, I feel soooooooo alone. I know there's still something missing. Somethings lacking, and I dont know what. My life is not complete, and that makes me feel sooo lonely. But the thing is, i do not know what to do, or where to go, to find that "SOMETHING MISSING". WHo do you think would help me find that something, that will surely cure my loneliness??? Not just anybody, that why, people surrounding us is not the answer. Of course, we could talk to them and enjoy sometime with them, but only for temporary moment. I think, what would cure my loneliness is being happy. Happy as in complete happiness, another question is, where can we find it?
2006-11-03 21:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by jossie31 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. Maybe you are a shy person. I know that I am that way too. It is difficult to just walk up to somebody & start a conversation. We are taught from a young age not to talk to strangers. So, if we were to do so, we would feel uncomfortable about it. Maybe you can try to join a club or organization and that will make it less difficult to meet people.
2006-11-04 17:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same exact problem, Sam. I hate it when my friends don't come over but my effort to go see them is piss-poor. I don't know how to break the cycle.
You're not alone.
Sounds like you live in a dorm. Is this true?
2006-11-04 08:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from time to time=people need intimate relationships. just because many people are around you does not mean that you can talk to any of them
2006-11-03 21:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I've been there before,but I am now at home and I am here on Answers so never mind that.. for now.
2006-11-03 21:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats me i have a hard time talking
2006-11-04 13:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by ace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW THATS ME,,u just told my story
2006-11-03 21:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋