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On a scale 1-50 am I hot or not?
I have poor self esteem and it's hard for
me to ask girls I like out because I feel
ugly. :-/ So any way I thought I'd ask
complete strangers so not to get my feeling hurt.
Everyone has their own taste in guys so I'm
not expecting a rating above 40. Most people
take personality over looks, but I think looks
help a lot. (I'm a friendly chap, so I'm not
worried about that :P)

http://img172.imageshack.us/img172/5953/image1ob7.jpg
http://img301.imageshack.us/img301/8954/img001077qy7.jpg

Please don't be mean, maybe honest but not mean. T_T

2006-11-03 21:06:55 · 18 answers · asked by DownCaster 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

18 answers

boy i dont know why u have low self esteem!?
ur not ugly! and yes people have different taste but ur not ugly so dont get those things confused.
i think the only thing thats keeping u down is ur lack of boldness.
dont be scared to ask a girl out.
i guess u first have to feel good about urself so that vibe goes out and then others follow.
its all about the vibe u send out!
so try to feel better about ur self!
dont hide behind ur hair or glasses
look up
and proud!
and i bet in a while once it comes natural youll get the courage to ask a girl...if once u dont succed....then try again!
no one person is good enough to give up after them!
remeber that!

well hope i helped
Chau
and feel better ok dear!

2006-11-03 21:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Je Suis Une Enigme 1 · 0 0

It's hard to see in these pictures, but what I can see I would date you. But you really need to work on your self esteem. If you never ask girls out because you feel ugly then you will never know what girls really think of you. You are right though, most girls do go for looks but like you said everyone has different taste. So to me you might be good looking but to the next girl you might not. Anyway everyone is goodlooking in there own way. There is no such thing as an ugly person, just ugly attitudes. Don't worry about the way you look. If a girl is really worth it then she won't care what you look like.

2006-11-03 21:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by rach 3 · 0 0

Yes your a little geeky looking and wierd but don't worry about that. You do have a good deal to work with. You have nice hair and i like the cut. Consider contact lenses. Work on getting a built body. Don't dress like a typical white spaz. Try preppy, I think that could work for you real clean cut. Clean clean clean is very important. Wear cologne like kennith cole, that's not over powering. Take a look at ralph lauren models. You could work w/ that. Get your skin cleared up with retin a micro or something. Clear skin is soooo important! if you have teeth issues see the dentist about clear braces. Once you get a better body don't be afraid to show it off. Yes you have potential, don't sweat it too much. It's give you a 32 now and a possible 42. You have to invest in your self if you want to improve. good luck.

2006-11-03 21:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by evilive 4 · 0 0

i wouldn't know what to rate you as because your photos aren't clear enough. a lack of confidence in a man is a big let down, though, and for me personally, i'd rather go out with an ugly man with a brilliant personality than an attractive man with a vile one. you need to make the most of yourself and stop worrying about what girls think of you. and when you do, there'll be plenty of them that show an interest.

2006-11-03 21:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by livingthelie 2 · 1 0

I don't think ur ugly kinda cute actually but u really need to find some way to boost ur confidence. I always find that going and doing something for myself (getting my hair done or getting a make over) makes me feel really confident my point is go do something for yourself I don't really know what else to say since i don't really know you but Good Luck :-)

2006-11-03 23:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm not going to rate...what I am going to say is women like confidence and humor...I've seen some pretty plain looking guys...myself included...do OK

BTW a woman can be beautiful and not have any personality...looks fade on all of us...

2006-11-03 21:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by loofa36 6 · 1 0

Just be confident.. You'd be surprised how many homely guys i see with total knockouts .
Just start asking out all the women you like because eventually one is going to say yes.

2006-11-03 21:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0 0

all you need is to boost your self esteem. If you look confident more people will want to talk to you. It doesn't matter how ugly you are the right person will come soon!

2006-11-03 21:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Estefania 2 · 1 0

Dude...if Vern Troyer can get a woman, anyone can. Find a girl that likes what you do "offline".

On your scale you are a 30.

2006-11-03 21:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Kitty 2 · 1 0

People will see you the way you feel about yourself,
especially girls. Btw,what is your definition of pretty?

I'd rate it if they were much clearer pics of you,love ;)

2006-11-03 21:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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