I used to be a sweet guy, and had alot of friendships with women, and of course that never got me anywhere. Then I changed a little, and I noticed that people were telling me "this girl likes you" but would never relevle heself. Then every realionship I trided to get into turn into the girl liking someone else, and treating her bad. After several rejections, i gave up. But now I can't get a date. Online definatly doesn't work for me. And I'm told that I'm a "sweet asshole", but no one can even fathom that I've never even had sex with a woman, even though they say I can walk into a room and turn almost anyone into a friend. I'm the only man in the world with this problem, right? I also found a lack of patience when women talk to me bout there problems, manily because it was one of the reasons my love intrests put me in the lowly "friend" catigory in the first place. Constructive feed back, Please.
2006-11-03 21:03:50 · 4 answers · asked by CaliRican 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn dude u got some serious issues. Pick ur self up and stop hating ur self so much. If u consider ur self a "sweet asshole" imagine how other people consider u. If u can't be more than who u r then who r u? Don't let others influence the good person deep inside of u. Continue to care and the right girl will come along in due time. All those other chicks didn't deserve the type of man u really r. Just hold on the miracle is yet to happen.
2006-11-03 21:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I find that if the ger treat u as a gd friend den you'll forever be a friend. A gal will say she like guy that listen to her problem, listen to her and yada yada den when u finally ask her to go steady she'll just say oh i'm sorry, i like u as a friend, nothing more.
Dun be sweet den, dun be nice change yourself and maybe it'll be better
2006-11-04 05:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by ralfhero 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate to tell you but you might be ugly. Women put men in the freind catagory to appease them. Dump the girl freinds and go for a girlfreind.
2006-11-04 05:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't change your personality to get laid. be yourself and you'll eventually find the right person who is going to like you for who you are. if you try too hard, you're going to put off that 'desperation vibe' that women can pick up from a mile away. good luck.
2006-11-04 05:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋