2006-11-03 20:55:00 · 10 answers · asked by mercurycomet19652001 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Don't to be cheat again. They never pay attention.
2006-11-03 20:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect and equality is something you can not ask for. You gotta earn it, and it may take some time to achieve it. Prove your worth, and make them feel they need you and not the other way round. It has been a hard job to please my father in law, but nowadays we are pretty close. At least up here the former generations have had to work real hard to make ends meet, so it may take some sweat and learning new skills to make them accept you. Even if they don`t , you have proved yourself that you can hack it, which is a great feeling too. And besides, maybe they don`t deserve you... ;-)
2006-11-04 07:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by Goswin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband and find out what the deal is. Sometimes in -laws are asses. Specifically the man's mother. There is an apron string attachement where she will tend to become jealous of the leading lady in her son's life. Good luck.
2006-11-04 05:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Julie J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
respect is earn
as long as you know that you have earn it than you should not try to buy it from them
talk to your husband about it
you just take care of your family & if you have children involve you make sure that the children always in contact with their grand parents but you don't have too
you can be as formal as you want to be with them
or you can just tell them how you feel
2006-11-04 08:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times your in laws can really cross the line-trust me i know but stand tall and be strong, be true to your word. the truth of the matter is that they may never really like you but they will respect you! good luck and remember keep ya head up.
2006-11-04 06:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by lady luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot demand respect, request respect, or even ask for it. You must earn respect. If you respect others, whether you care for them or not, then they will respect you in return.
2006-11-04 04:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by BONNI 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
can you give us some details of what there doing?
2006-11-04 05:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Bonni!!!!
2006-11-04 05:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Demand it!
2006-11-04 05:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you well nevr get
2006-11-04 04:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by gary a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋