Do u have any tips on how to get a certain guy to like me? he used to be really into me but i wasnt into him at the time but now i am and hes not! thanx!
2006-11-03 19:27:47 · 14 answers · asked by ☮Dano922☮ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt blow him off hes just really dumb! but hes totally in love with one of my best friends! and she hates him! and hes really upset cuz she told him that she hates him and now i freakin sit on the comp. for over 5 hrs lisenting to this crap about how he loves her! tips?
2006-11-03 19:38:29 · update #1
Whether you know this or not -- He probably likes you; alot. I think you need to realize the provenance of his "like" for this other girl. Maybe he's using her to make you jealous or maybe he's using her to get over you. Whatever his reason; if you don't send him any signals soon then it might be too late (and it might already be too late) and if thats the case then flip the coin because God doesn't control fate.
It's hard to rekindle a flame that never had a spark but that doesn't mean after the aurora it'll stay dark. If you want him then wear your heart on your sleeve and next time you see him;
tell him you and him is something you believe -- But before you two can become anything more, give him an ultimatum or anything between you two is forever out the door.
The ball is in your court, its up to you to dribble it out.
2006-11-03 20:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why the particular guy isn't into you now as opposed to in the past is because he mentally moved on and gotten over you not being into him. He may have found someone else to chase and woo. YOu could have had him in the past, but weren't available to him.
Sometimes people want what they can't have. That is another reason why you may desire him now. That is also why he desired you then as well. Since you can't make someone like you, the best you can do is flirt with him and gauge his interest. Maybe he may rekindle a crush for you. Maybe he won't. In that case you just move on. He has.
2006-11-04 03:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to overtly let him know you wanted the attention to go even further? We're down for action, horny, focused and a lot of fun when we KNOW what it is you're up for...but we're not mind-readers and we certainly don't want to run the risk of being shot down, just so you girls can pick and choose at will! Bring it, we'll do the same!
2006-11-04 03:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adam Sandler sang it best in the Wedding Singer.
"Love Stinks."
2006-11-04 04:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ellis26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he not clueless he just moved on. a guy could wait along time waiting for a woman to make up her mind.
besides it sounds like u were the one who was clueless he knew what he wanted and know he doesn't want it.
2006-11-04 03:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get his attention a note or something. He would not try again by all means since you kinda blew him off.
2006-11-04 03:33:00 · answer #6 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant exactly make anyone like you so i guess its time to move on you never know what the future will bring
2006-11-04 05:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by mycerrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't clueless, he's trying to provide you an openning.
2006-11-04 04:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha... clueless? He's playing you like a guitar!
Clueless.... we aren't that dumb.
2006-11-04 03:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You snooze you lose ..You had the chance and blew it.
2006-11-04 03:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋