If a girl cheated on you 8 times what would you do to get back?
What & Why? What if she had been raped by one of them or something. Then what would you do?? Would you feel bad? Let's assume you don't break up.
would you forgive her if they raped her or something??
1.they were all my friends.
2. I forgave her
3. It's been a month
4. It made her a better person and she loves me more now.Two of the guys molested he though.
would you cheat back??
she promised to be loyal now. she was raped after thr 8th person.
does she feel bad??
2006-11-03 19:09:52 · 13 answers · asked by avatar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love her but don't wanna seem like a jerk by not caring that my friend molested her. What should I do??
2006-11-03 19:12:41 · update #1
It sounds like a lot of drama but idk the whole situation. 8 times and a lot of drama? Do you really want that?
2006-11-03 19:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if she cheated on you 8 times already then whats to say that there won't be a 9th time. I know you love the girl and if she has been raped she's gonna need someone there for her, maybe the rape has made her see life in a new perspective and how bad she treated you as you were the only one to keep taking her back showing u really love her. I would take her back this one last time and if she cheats on you again then its best to end it and move on, but if she stays faithful this time then you can move on from her past mistakes and maybe be able to have true happyness. Just be there for her and see how it goes
2006-11-04 05:45:33 · answer #2 · answered by Chappers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1..This sounds too weird to be true....
2...How can you say these guys are your friends?...
3....You might forgive her once, but 8 times!!!?
4......What's time got to do with it?
5.........Being raped made her a better person? Are the guys in jail? Cheating back won't help.
2006-11-04 03:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't cheat back. It only reduces you to her level. If you feel like you are capable of being with someone else, then you probably don't really love her. She will never be loyal, why would she. She may feel bad for getting caught. I doubt, she feels bad for cheating.... or she would not have done it 8 times. Stop trying to fix her. She is beyond repair.
T.A.
2006-11-04 03:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more info. don't really understand the question and how many times she was raped? or molested? all I can say is Two wrongs don't make a right. Don't belittle yourself as well althought I'm really not sure whats going on. sunnydays
2006-11-04 03:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, how many time are you going to change the FU***** story around. First she was raped, now she was molested. Regardless of what happened to her, SHE CHEATED ON YOU 8 TIMES WITH YOUR FRIENDS. WHAT PART DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND? DUH.........at this point you deserve whatever you get.
2006-11-04 03:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both wanting to salvage this relationship, you Both need some serious counselling. Nothing on here will help. you both need a qualified rape and relationship counsellor. Dont wait, go today
2006-11-04 03:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by blahblahblah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy complicated! I would say if you love her like you say, you wouldn't do that to her. But I personally don't think I would have given her a 2nd chance. And if she truly was raped like you said, don't do that to her.
2006-11-04 03:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by Gina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was raped i would feel bad but she still cheated 7 other times get away from her before she gives you something and not kitty but aids lol
2006-11-04 03:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by Avis S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What would i do..lol .I would have left her after the first time she cheated..
2006-11-04 03:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SHE WAS RAPED? Thats a hard to believe.
2006-11-04 03:12:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋