how do you brake a soul tie from premarital sex?

Question

i am married now but had premarital sex with an other man before my husband and i ever got together. i have heard that your soul is tied to thst person and want to end that tie so i can give all of myself to my husdand. Is this true and if so how to brake it.

Answer 1

Although I see many answers already that state it does not matter, your feelings on this shows it does matter. The Bible tells us that premarital sex is fornication. (sex outside of marriage is adultery) and although some feel it is ok...we can see broken homes all across society that screams it does matter as we can see in the first link below...the hidden cost for sin.

What to do about it? The first step is to make sure you have a right relationship with GOD. The 2nd link will show how to do this. If you did this already, then confess your sin to the LORD. using 1 John 1:9 and the third link will show how to build a strong relationship with your husband.

Answer 2

I'd be skeptical of any teaching from Bob Larson.

The teaching that a man and a woman "become one flesh" is difficult to understand, but we can reaonably conclude that the sexual union does create something significant, and perhaps eternal, between a man and a woman. The scripture is silent on the necessity of undoing whatever was created, and where the scripture is silent, let us all, including Bob Larson, be content to be silent also. Rest assured that if God expected you to do anything about this, He would have made it manifestly clear in orthodox teaching of the scriptures. But the scriptures know nothing of souls being tied together, in the sense that is being suggested.

During the wedding ceremony, you explicitly declared your intention to "forsake all others," and if the specific words were not spoken, the wedding ceremony speaks implicitly of this public proclamation. (Not that those words have any magic power of themselves: it's the fact of a public statment, either spoken or implied, that is the point). That, your repentance before God for previous rebellion to His will, and your continued faithfulness to your husband, is all that you can do, and all that is required. Rest easy, devote yourself to your husband, and enjoy the freedom from bondage that men like Larson would put you under.

Answer 3

I understand your question and where you are coming from. I believe you need to start by asking God for forgiveness. Then talk to God and tell him what you want. God will understand your remorse and should grant your request. God designed the woman and knows how a woman feels. He will break that bond. The bond that happens during sex is a bond that was meant for marriage. God is the only one that can break that bond. Then you can be fully connected with your husband.
I am assuming that you, at least slightly, still feel that connection. Also I am going to assume you asked this on the Religion and Spirituality page that you wanted that type of answer.

Answer 4

Soul ties are usually broken at the wedding alter when you knell for communion and take in the Lord's body and blood. In Christ the consummation is with a virginal bride the same is true here. God sees you are cleaned from sin (former things having been committed) and purged from acts of unrighteousness (there will be no remembrance of them) and washed white as snow (they will never be brought up and used against you ever again.) You are pristine and kept as a blemish free spotless bride. A handmaiden in waiting for her near kinsman redeemer.

Answer 5

If you are Catholic, Sincere Contrition, Confession and attending Mass and receiving Holy Communion.

Perfect contrition is is also in realizing what and why something was/is wrong and being sorry for having done something that offends God. (Not just not wanting the punishment for doing wrong).

That is all you can really do. All have sinned and fall short of the Glory of God. That includes every saint that ever lived (not counting the Blessed Mother Mary, she never sinned.)

We all must pray for strength to stay on the path.

God Bless You, ;-)

Answer 6

If ur catholic, go to confession, and confess to a preist, that will absolve u of all ur sins, and u'll feel better-if u believe in that sort of thing. If ur not Catholic, go to ur religious authority; talk it over, and ask what appropriate measures u should take to be forgiven, and therefore, to break the tie with ur previous love. If none of this is ur belief, just pray to God on ur own, and he'll forgive u. He sees ur heart, and if ur truly sorry(or want to break the tie), it'll be done. But u have to remember to break the tie in ur own heart and mind after Jesus has done it for u. I've learned from my experience, that Jesus always forgives us, but we don't always forgive ourselves, and for u, if u don't forgive urself, then th tie will always remain.

Answer 7

Your soul ıs connected wıth thıs man because you love hım.Just thınk where you dıd mıstake or he dıd before you marrıed wıth your husband and why you both couldnt get marry and both of you contınue premarıtal sex after your marrıage wıth thıs ınnocent man and you are ınjurıng hım.Suppose you would contınue sex wıth your fırst love you could refuse to marry wıth your present husband.

Answer 8

whilst thinking it is the greater severe sin that's useful to first evaluate it is the greater desirable sin...... that's plenty greater desirable having premarital intercourse in basic terms as quickly as, yet with 3 women on the comparable time. for sure as a result the greater severe sin is in basic terms having intercourse thrice on 3 separate events with one interior the comparable lady. Oh wait.... perhaps you're able to checklist a blow via blow description of what you probably did.... on each and each social gathering... the accrued indiscretions of each individual component to reported intercourse could be added at the same time to attain a complete score. of path, you will would desire to grant greater information... yet that's what confessing is all approximately... precise?

Answer 9

yes the soul tie thing is true.. and to brake it just repent onto the lord.. confess everything you did with the other man and ask for forgivness.. once you have done it, trust me you will feel a weight lifted from your soul :)

Answer 10

confetion and asking forgiveness. if you do not feel tied to them I would leave it in Gods hands just pray on it. you could confess to your husband. if he knows about the previous relationship talk to him, but then that may put a strain on your marriage. if you are really concerned talk to your pastor or priest but to me you sound OK now it is in the past just pray on it.