My husband and I have twins that are 6. We needed lots of infertiltiy stuff to have the two. Now we are debating on going it again but this time no fertility drugs to lesson the chance of twins. But, my life is pretty good right now. We have it so the twins are pretty self sufficient. But, maybe they're enough. Because they are self sufficient I would now have time for another. But, I'm not sure if I want to start all over with baby stuff and especially the infertilty stuff. I want one but I'm not sure. I feel like I missed the baby stage of my twins because it was so crazy with two. I never got the chance to enjoy one baby and have the other baby later.
2006-11-03 17:01:16 · 6 answers · asked by motormank 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i have 3 ages 8, 6 &2! last was not planned and i was realy scared at first! but now i can't remmber ever having two! you ajust and it seems like everything is the same as it always was!! could't inmagion now not having all 3!!!
2006-11-03 17:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by rblankenship_rblankenship 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be something you feel you missed out on. (I have three kids.) If you have another you may say you feel you isolated the twins to 'gulp up' the time with a new baby. Sometimes it's hard to say a definite yes or no. I had babies 16 months apart and feel sometimes that I didn't get to enjoy the babiness of #2. Have a baby if you want to, but just look at it as your family growing. Good luck!
2006-11-03 17:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my kids the other way around.....I have a 13 year old, and now (SURPRISE!!!) I have 9 month old twin girls! Of course, the decision to have more kids is only yours to make, but, I can give you this advice....If you intend to have more kids, don't wait much longer! I had gotten accustomed to the freedoms you get as your kids get older. By having them so far apart, I am actually having to start over. I am a 31 year old, single mother, and I am here to tell you it is hard to readjust your lifestyle to accomodate having new babies in the house. And you already had twins.....there is always that chance again! Are you up for it?? Good Luck and I wish you all the best!
2006-11-03 19:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by wettdirt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have relations with your husband with no protection. I'm not religious or anything, but if God intends for it to happen then he will make up your mind for you.
Good luck.
P.S. If you do not have another child you will probably always wonder what it would have been like and probably regret never doing it. If you do have another child you know you will NEVER regret it.
2006-11-03 17:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,first of all do you want to spend more time with your twins or forget them by caring for another baby?They might feel left out so talk to them and see if they will like another brother or sister.(Don't leave them out on this.)
2006-11-03 17:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you adopt a child? The world is overpopulated as it is.
Why don't you find a child who needs a home?
2006-11-03 17:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋