Im 14, Im in love with a girl that i could see myself spending the rest of my life with. I love everything about her. The way she laughs, talks, walks, her appearance, her personality, everything.
I think this girl is within my reach, but I dont know how to get her to like me. Everyone in my class is teasing me and stuff. I wanted to ask her out, but another kid beat me to it. I dont know if they're dating, but I would like to have a chance to go out with this girl. any help with this situation is appreciated.
2006-11-03 16:50:42 · 8 answers · asked by yawhatever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok - this is going to sound like i don't understand how you feel, but i think i understand all too well... but at 14 there is no way you could know about the kind of girl you could spend the rest of your life with. you haven't had a chance to grow up and neither has she. i have been with my partner since we were 19, and it is still a struggle at times because you change so much as you are growing up - and the changes through the late teens into your early twenties are some of the biggest.
don't put this girl on a pedastal, as there are few things more frightening than having someone think so well of you. just spend some time talking with her and having fun. make her laugh. and realise that there are heaps of other amazing girls out there if nothing happens with this one.
2006-11-03 16:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is crush and being 14 is very difficult! At 14 you fall hard for girls but look at your future...life gets so fun in college and you will have the fun of meeting lots of different girls and you will get to party!! Don't worry so much now because the best part of your life is still to some. I remember being 14 and in love...well that was like 5 guys ago and I don't even remember his name now! Focus on yourself...being a better person, learning more about life, getting a good education, and most of all learning to love yourself! Be single now so later in life when you do meet your soul mate you can say you experienced life and you played the field! Trust me...you have so much time to grow and have fun. Girls come and go but the most important thing is to love yourslef first. Girls love confident guys! Be cocky but most of all be yourself. If she is the one for you (well the right one for now) then she will come around and see that you are an awesome guy! Be a good friend to everyone and you will see that there are plenty of fish out there just waiting to grab your bait!! MOST of all love yourself the rest will come naturally ;)
2006-11-04 00:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by LenaRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put her on a petal style and just go talk to her. I'm 15 and u sound exactly like me believe it or not. I know how u feel and know about all that teasing stuff and I know its hard but u have to make a move or daydream about her until she's out of your system, its your choice. If u ask her out then u can take the risk, if she says yes then it means it'll be great but if she rejects u then people will be teasing u but it will go away. The last option is the most painfullest because she will be on your mind and you'll always hate yourself for not asking her out. Come on man I believe in u, ask her out.
2006-11-04 02:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go talk to her, ask her about it. you can't make someone like you it just happens. if you force you could lose your chance with her. but if she doesn't like you just remember there there is over 1 billion people on this earth, God has made someone for everyone. Love is patient so we all must be patient too. the one will come along and find you it will just take time. good luck.
2006-11-04 01:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by cobra69_68467 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man u almost sound like me right now the way i think everytime i see her and when i see the girl i like even wit a guy and i think they're going out, start talking to her a little bit by a little bit it dosen't matter if its small like maybe when something happens to her you tell her like "happen back there" or "hey" it dosen't matter thats what u have to do and wat i have to do i know its hard but love is a powerful thing it could control u....u have to take action.....u have to do it if not you'll regret it believe me
2006-11-04 01:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her out but take things one day at a time ...your 14 you have a long life ahead of you and a long time to be thinking about who to spend your life with...enjoy your youth dont rush your life...
2006-11-04 00:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young and i hate to break it to you but you probably wont be with her forever, maybe you will that can happen too.. but if you like her than talk to her.. get to know her better.
2006-11-04 00:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by pinkcandiez871 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck. but just ask her if shes goin out widat boy, n if she aint , ask her out. if she is goin out with da boy, then wait till they break up n then ask her out.
2006-11-04 00:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by vio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋