ok so what would u do if u were goin out with someone and ur bithday cames up and they dont get u ANYTHNG!!!! Do u think i should be mad at them!!!! Even though they said they were sry 4 not geting me anything.
2006-11-03 16:47:45 · 25 answers · asked by crazysami1313 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we were goin out 4 about a month
2006-11-03 16:49:14 · update #1
yes!!! thats retarted!...and totally rude of him...k, on his birthday, you'd better not get him anything. let him know how it feels ;)
2006-11-03 16:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by sugarandspice015 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you like this my husband and I have been married for 13 years now. He has never been big on birthdays. As a matter a fact I am absolutely thrilled just to get a card from him for my birthday. Sometimes I get upset about it, but it is no big deal simply because I know one way or another he will make it up to me. I would not get mad about it especially if they said they were sorry it could have been a simple mistake. Do not hold it against them because you may reep the rewards later on.
2006-11-04 00:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by sambluebaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be mad. I know that you might be disappointed, but don't be mad. You have not really been going out long enough to really expect a present so soon. It was nice of them to apologize. You should gracefully accept the apology and look forward to a present next year if you are still going out. Christmas is not far off, I am sure they won't forget you then.
2006-11-04 00:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's right you should be mad. Because after 1 month of dating, this guy should know everything about you and be able to read your mind. In fact, you should be mad at everyone in the world for not celebrating you on your special day, because you were the only one ever born on that day and you are the most important person in the whole entire world.
2006-11-04 00:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Own your feelings if you feel mad at him for not buying anything. However if you are still mad after time has passed you may need to think about whether you want to remain in the relationship. Your expectations may be too high for him or he is not worth dating.
2006-11-04 00:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you might want to find out why they didn't get you anything. Maybe they didn't have the money and was afraid to tell you. Ask questions first, then get mad.
2006-11-04 00:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends maybe that person just couldn't buy you anything maybe he was at a hard situation. if it is like that you don't have to be mad forgive him. but if he didn't give you anything in purpose you should get mad.
2006-11-04 00:56:10 · answer #7 · answered by Alberto B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry it must be a mistake. why celebrating a birthday. ur year more closer to the death. be nice to them. dont expect much from any body. it brings misery to ur life.
2006-11-04 00:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by prabath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nahh..
but if you always get them gifts for theirs, and they all buy each other shxt, then yeah, I'd be kinda mad.
But if that's not the case, then don't worry about it.
2006-11-04 00:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by ciaopride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yea I would get mad. He could of at least oet you a card or something small like that.
2006-11-04 00:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what your relationship is like. Don't be mad at him if he apoligized sincerely, but if he was just like, 'oh sorry baby', then yeah, be pissed. Even if he's broke he could have made you something.
2006-11-04 00:52:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋