I broke up with my Girl Friend who was about to become my fiance about 3 months ago. And I cant get over it still to this day. I mean i Still feel like i love her still. But we didnt want to break up more less forced by parents to break up thou..
2006-11-03 16:46:04 · 15 answers · asked by cwconline 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that means you still love her. deeply. and i have a feeling SHE feels the same way about YOU too, since you guys didn't WILLINGLY break up.
my sister had this problem. she wanted to get married to her boyfriend, but her parents wouldn't allow it. said he wouldn't be able to support her, since he hadnt rlly done good in his education and he wasn't working or anything.
but my sister kept pleading with my/well, hers too parents finally gave in to her numerous begs ("I really love him and he loves me; isnt that what's supossed to count?")
call this girl. pour your heart out.
she probably loves you still too.
go to her/your parents and plead with them. plead as long as it takes for them to give in.
and if they dont... well, this may sound painful, but you will just have to elope or something. you guys love each other.
nothing can get in the way of that.
2006-11-03 16:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be over someone you need a conclusion. Being that the parents forced the break up you can't really have a conclusion so it is no surprise that you are having a hard time.
Best thing to do is to focus on your self. Get involved with school and sports. Keeping busy will help you get it out of your mind.
2006-11-04 00:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months isn't very long. For some people, it takes some time to get over loss.
When I was 17 my true love broke up with me. I was so crushed I wanted to commit suicide. My mother, who has been married for over 30 years to her second husband told me that when my father left it felt like the end of the world. "But look, I found another person I love, and you will too".
I didn't believe her in the depths of my grief but I certainly do now!
The pain will eventually fade for you too. You will meet somebody else that you love.
2006-11-04 00:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by reslstancelsfutlle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not easy ..... but you have to move on or you'll languish there for a long long time, break out, learn to fake it to make it. Shave all your body hair off and go bowling and drop your pants all by accident, cause some attention to come your way, go a little nuts and play the fool, whatever, but do anything other than stand still. Good luck be with you.
2006-11-04 00:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being looks for something that it is attracted to. Just by simply breaking up with them doesn't help when you consciously know that a person that you like exists in this world but you can't be with them. It would either require that person to cease from existing or a change of the type of people your self desires - both which are hard tasks.
2006-11-04 00:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents made you break up, then she could not possibly have been your true fiance. Only a man can have a fiance and present himself seriously as a potential husband.
Since your mommy and daddy still run your life, you cannot possibly be a man.
2006-11-04 00:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to have words of wisdom, but I've gotten over some things and been better without him, but I'm still in love with my LOVE. And its been almost two years! It'll get better though. Mainly, I think that it takes each day and we'll never stop loving. We just have to be strong for ourselves. :)
2006-11-04 00:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because , like you said, it was not you who really wanted to break up, it was forced by parents.
2006-11-04 00:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE REASON THAT YOU CANT MOVE ON, IS FOR WHAT
EVER REASON THAT YOU BROKE UP, THERE IS NO
CLOSURE, AND UNTIL YOU CLOSE THIS CHAPTER IN
THIS BOOK. YOU WILL NEVER MOVE ON. I DONT KNOW
WHY YOUR PARENTS HAD A PROBLEM WITH HER, BUT
THEY KNOW BETTER ABOUT WHAT GOING ON IN YOUR
LIFE. SO MAY BE JUST TAKE THIS TIME TO TALK TO EVERY
ONE IF POSSIBLE, THEN YOU WILL GET THE CLOSURE
THAT YOU NEED.
2006-11-04 00:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'if somebody won't get out of your head maybe they are supposed to be there.'
if u rly feel that way about her then u have to fight for her. ur parents cannot stop u if u decide u love eachother. it's not their choice to meddle with ur love life.
'they get to give advice and shout from the sidelines but u get the field.'
2006-11-04 00:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by i.WoNt.SaY.iT. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋